I'm in a new relationship of about a month and we both like each other very much. We spend about 5 days out of the week together and we just enjoy each other's time. Well I am running into a problem and I'm not sure if there is anything that I can do except just let time do it's thing. So tell me what you think. I'm not new to relationship's but he is. Now the reason why he hasn't dated much is because of all the relationship's he has seen his friends in and how much there friends had changed once they became into a relationship. He is scared that this will happen with us. He really like's me. He tells me he wants this to work and that I am the only thing that he feels he has going for him. But this is just something that he has to work through. Any ideas of what I can do? Please HELP! We are both in our 20's
2006-08-03 11:07:32 · 4 answers · asked by browneyegirl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What can I do to help him not think that I will change him like he has seen happen with his friends. He is use to his single life and scared that I am going to take away from his hunting, fishing....whatever....but yet he loves spending time with me. Like I said we spend most the week together. I just want to help him now that I'm not here to change who he is or the things he enjoys. How do I do that?
2006-08-03 11:16:02 · update #1
i'm not exactally sure on how his friends have changed. I'm thinking that they have stopped doing the things they enjoyed because there partner nagged about it. That's what I'm feeling anyways. Hell if he wants to go hunting and do the things he wants to do I'm fine with that. I told him just not to forget about me and still make me feel that I'm an important part of his life.
2006-08-03 11:18:34 · update #2
Explain to him that yes, being a relationship and in love changes people. That is just the nature of the beast. However, without taking a chance risking his heart he will never find true love. Remember, failure is just one step closer to success.
2006-08-03 11:17:24 · answer #1 · answered by rkrell 7 · 6⤊ 3⤋
I guess my question is...the friends he is talking about how have they changed?? maybe the fact he doesn't see them as much bothers him? I say take it slow, you are still young but let him know what your expectations are and if he still on a diffrent page than you, maybe you should spend alittle less time togehter don't wait around for him, I have made that mistake of waiting around, waited 3 years too long, then finally I got smart and married a great guy. Just be smart and trust me if it's meant to be it will be. Good Luck.
2006-08-03 18:14:22 · answer #2 · answered by Kelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's an adult. He can take his own decisions. Its not like ull put him a gun in his face so he stops hunting and stuff.
I quit playing rpg's with friends every saturday because of my gf, but thats cause i prefer to spend the time with her, and i get out with the guys from time to time.
If he loves hunting more than he loves you, then screw him.
Anyway, is always his choice.
2006-08-03 18:21:19 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you can do for what?
2006-08-03 18:13:50 · answer #4 · answered by terrbeary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋