I didn't cheat but I felt as though he cheated on me so me being incure want to do what I think he is doing.
2006-08-03 10:59:52 · 15 answers · asked by Erika 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Cheating is never right.
2006-08-03 11:06:04 · answer #1 · answered by xlx_angelic_2_demon_xlx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure he cheated on you? as you did say that you "felt as though he cheated"..."And you want to do what you think he is doing"... so are you saying you think he is or actually is cheating on you? can you confirm that?
Just talk to him about your thoughts, if you still think he is even after that... then research......
If he did cheat then you should not keep him, thats a bad egg.
And never should you cheat either just to get him back, it doesn't make you feel any better... it might make you feel dirty !
Do you trust him? if you don't then at least do a little research.
Or are you feeling a little bit insecure about something, which in turn is making think he is pulling a fast one on you?
But no it is not good to cheat on him either. If you want to go with someone else then just break up first. That way you will have a clearer conscience.
Besides how do you know his cheating? just think about all of the options you have, you have tons. just think about whats happening and then build up any clues you may have. And discuss this with your friends for some help.
Never rush into anything without planning and think about it first...
Good Luck
2006-08-03 18:26:03 · answer #2 · answered by swma76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES it is wrong to cheat on your boyfriend. Why don't you try talking to him about how you feel instead? Tell him that you feel like he has been unfaithful, and that it made you feel insecure and see what he has to say about it. If he did cheat, then break it off, revenge is not necessary or mature, just end it. That is a deal breaker. If he didn't cheat, then you are ok. I am going through issues with someone in my family cheating and it is not worth the pain.
2006-08-03 18:24:34 · answer #3 · answered by BSS_FAN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are thinking about getting back at him by cheating on him when you dont even know if he cheated or not, then i think you really need to take a good look at your relationship.
2006-08-03 18:06:16 · answer #4 · answered by Kristy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is wrong! Even if he has cheated, don't stoop to his level. Just dump him and move on. Find someone that will be faithful.
2006-08-03 18:07:05 · answer #5 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never cheat, just leave. He shouldn't have cheated.
2006-08-03 18:07:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is wrong. NO doubt about that. Remember that cheaters are really bad boys in disguise. Anyone who doesn't respect your sense of Trust and your sense of People in others doesn't deserve to have you in their life either.
2006-08-03 18:04:14 · answer #7 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun two wrongs do not make it right show him that you are the better person and just let him be because if you go out and do what he is doing then you are just as bad as him.
2006-08-03 18:03:29 · answer #8 · answered by psycholilblondegirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is never right to cheat on your b/f. it is wrong. your relationship won't last if you cheat on him he won't be able to trust you.
2006-08-03 18:03:51 · answer #9 · answered by princess_anne_2009 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him nicely and if he says no then trust him and if you feel like that later one go and check for yourself.
2006-08-03 18:03:37 · answer #10 · answered by EMT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋