Look me and my dude have been together for 2 years, I love him. but lately it seems like he spends more time with his boys. My friends always has some negative things to say about him. He has cheated once, and I just can't seem to get over that. He says things and never comes through with the promise he made. He calls girls right in front of me, and talks about them and about how good they look and junk. I'm just confused maybe he is tired with me. but every time we breakup we are right back together. I need help and advice.
2006-08-03 10:58:54 · 24 answers · asked by wyneshia j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you want everyone to back up the decision you already want to make. Dump him. You said you can't get over his cheating, so you don't trust him. He calls girls in front of you, so he doesn't respect you. You get right back with him after breaking up, so you have low self-esteem. Make the hard decision, have some pride, and take back your life. Dump him.
2006-08-03 11:02:32 · answer #1 · answered by BeenThere69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl i'm really sorry about that. I can understand what you are saying because I went through a couple of the things you were mentioning and i can only give you one advice: DUMP HIM!!!he already cheated once, and i know it hurts, especially when you really love somebody, he calls other girls in front of you and don't appreciates you or your beauty. You say maybe he's tired of you but you should be the one tired of him because this relationship got one of the most fondamental parts missing: RESPECT. He obviously has no respect for you and i guarantee you that if you leave him and go out there and find a guy that can love you and appreciate you unconditionally, you'll realise how foolish you've been for being with this dude. he's not worth your time, believe me. Hope things go well and that you'll make the right decision.God Bless
2006-08-03 11:09:38 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey this is not good!!! Firstly if you cannot seem to forgive and forget that he has cheated on you then you need to move on, secondly wat kind of man calls other girls in front of his woman talking about how they look? Like all the others said, dump him immediately and stay away!!! He doesn't care about u, if he did then he wouldn't be doing these things. I kno two years is a lot and its hard, but believe me gurl u will get through it and pass him. Time heals all wounds!!! Good Luck!!!
2006-08-03 11:09:50 · answer #3 · answered by Chelly Belly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually if you have to ask "should we break up" then the answer is probably yes. He completely disrespects you! He calls girls in front of you! He has cheated on you! And worst of all he probably knows that you know all of this! This can only mean one thing...he does not care about you in the least...let alone love you. Move one honey.
2006-08-03 11:03:15 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My brother always said, if it's bad enough to break up with him once, you should never get back together. I must say I agree. It's hard to stay broken up, but it's the most healthy thing you can do for yourself. Show yourself that you respect yourself enough to stand up to being treated badly and demand more by being alone. You can do it, girl. You don't need him and it's okay to be single.
2006-08-03 11:02:56 · answer #5 · answered by Flutter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheat always a cheat. If he's bored with you and is impertinent enough to call his sluts in front of you then what the heck do you want him to do more? make it with them while you watch? Dump the S.O.B right now and go find a suitable bf.
2006-08-03 11:05:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That has happened to me. Talk to him and if says he'll change then just see if he does. If he doesn't dump him for good. If he keeps bugging you to get together it is harrassing and should stop simply by telling you princible if your in school or getting a restarining order if you are not at school.
2006-08-03 11:04:26 · answer #7 · answered by tayluuuuuh bby(: 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i ve been in a similar situation i was w dis guy for 3yrs...i knew he was getting tierd of me bc of the way he acted and yea i dumped him a couple of times and yea we would always get back togetgher.but i had a limit and as much as i loved him i had to let him go i have dignity and i was not trying to be like this all the time..and now im doing a lot better w a great guy who appreciates me. now its up to you
2006-08-03 11:12:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need advice. Reread your question.
Your answer is already there.
I will ask you this, though, do you honestly think it is better to have a piece of a trifling something, than all of nothing?
You can do bad by your darn self!
2006-08-03 11:04:50 · answer #9 · answered by DaMan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm well if he's doing all that junk right in front of you maybe he's trying to get u to break up with him but then again maybe he's just testing you to see how much you can take I dunno give it a lil more time or maybe talk to him about it it'll probably be easier then breaking up with him plus if your in love with the kid why would you break up with him...think about it
2006-08-03 11:04:10 · answer #10 · answered by chicka!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋