can u be in love at the age of 13?with a boi who keeps doin u rng?

Question

Yall be goin out 4 2 years durin dat time he cheated twice..but u stuk by him cuz u think u luv him..The last time he lokked into my eyes and said baby i luv ya and im sorri i luv u on the real tip..i changed 4 u..u the kind uv gurl i want to marrie..u truthful and genuine u dont hld ya tongue 4 no 1..i luv u. when i hav a problem i kan tlk to u..u got them beautyfull eyes i can tell u anything..Wat shood i do?shood i go bak and prolly get hurt again..r turn ya bak on sumthin that cood uv actually been sumthin genuine..

Answer 1

You are only 13, you should be enjoying your childhood and don't get caught up in all of that drama. You might think that you're in love, but you're just infatuated. You need to be careful of what that boy is doing. If he's cheating, he could be bringing home some disease to you that could affect you for the rest of your life. I think you should forget about him and start taking care of yourself.

Answer 2

The first thing I would suggest you do is learn how to communicate properly, namely your writing ability: as a man speaking for the majority of mature men, an educated woman that can express herself well can be as powerful attractant as anything else you could imagine. But that brings me to my point: you are not a woman, so no, you cannot be in love. You are at that age where everything beyond your sphere of known emotional and social security is becoming more interesting.

I suggest that before you throw away so much time devoting to someone else that you discover who you are. You cannot love yet for you do not know what truely pleases you (i.e. the qualities that this boy has to offer which are akin to your desires and needs).

The pressure of society to be needed or to need another, mimicked by you and your peers whom are not ready, has got to be the worst influence that our modern society has yet to create.

Have (sensible) fun while you are young, for once you have crossed the point of no return the pang for time since lost grows stronger over the years. Your only salvation will be knowing who you are, what you stand for, what you deserve, and going out to attain all of that.

No one here has the right to tell you what you ought to do, including me. On the other side of that, do not take any such suggestions at face value. "Third time's the charm," but if you do go back and get hurt again (and his track-record strongly suggests that you will), you will have learned the hard way: you're perfect in his eyes, and he's not in yours. Do not llive for someone else who clearly doesn't deserve you.

Answer 3

my opinion u shouldnt u stuk by him for two years and thast good eunuf. u shouold hav eleft him after the second time he cheated on u.

ur so young and u mite thik ull be in love anther 10-15 times, and some of thoose times u actuly mite be, but u have so many guys out ther to find.

u mite find someone who wants to spend every second with u n will never cheat on u n love u more than any other guy has ever loved u.
but u wont find him unless u leave this guy

but wen u leave him still be friend with him
if he really loves u as he says he dose hell be happy if u guys stay friends

hope i can help =]

Answer 4

Are you kidding me? Do you honestly want to mentally scarred by the age of 14? You still have your whole life to live, don't waste it on a guy that is going to use you like some spare shoe. I don't mean to be overly cliche, but pay more attention to your school work and developing yourself as a human being. If he is willing to wait for you, hell in 7 years go for it. But as for now, you have better things to waste your time on.

Answer 5

you should start by learning to spell! then, don't worry about some stupid boy. wait untill you get older, then you can worry about some stupid man.