Its not like its sex, and if she wants 2 y not.
2006-08-03 10:48:44 · 41 answers · asked by goldieluxxx 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No rules, just do what feels good. : ) And call me. LOL
2006-08-03 10:52:05 · answer #1 · answered by works_out_a_lot_27 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess it just depends on the girl, the guy, and their situation. If the girl does that for several different guys on several different first dates in a somewhat short period of time, then she should be considered a sl*t, in my opinion. But if it is just the first time, depending on the situation, I don't necessarily think that it's a "sl*tty" thing to do. However, every person is different and every situation should be judged differently. And for your information, a ******** is oral sex, which is considered a type of sex.
2006-08-03 10:55:36 · answer #2 · answered by cleatus!! the pig! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because a bj can lead to sex and some people that is taking it too far on the first date
2006-08-03 10:51:23 · answer #3 · answered by laurennn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is not one guy on the face of the earth who wouldn't think your a sl*t for doing anything sexual on the first date. With that said, oral sex is sex. For me its even more personal than vaginal sex. Why in the hell would you want to put some guys d*ck in your mouth when you dont even know him. That is totally nasty. Have some self respect girl. If you dont know him keep his d*ck out of your mouth. I dont believe in the word sl*t so I wouldn't call you that. I would just call you nasty.
2006-08-03 10:53:45 · answer #4 · answered by JustMe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here are my sentiments.
If we just met, and in less than 24 hours, you feel comfortable enough to put your lips on my "stuff" and get oral on me, then I have to wonder where the heck else have your lips been!
Where is your discretion and your judgment?
You don't know me like that.
And yes a bj is ORAL sex -- genitalia is touching an orifice. Get it right!
You can do what you wanna do, but a bj on the first date makes me feel like you have "Golden Arches" above your bedroom that reads "Billions and Billions" served.
2006-08-03 10:55:34 · answer #5 · answered by DaMan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is called ORAL SEX so I would say it is sex.
Now If I get a BJ on the first daye what do I get for a 2nd date
2006-08-03 10:55:19 · answer #6 · answered by danzka2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think girls like that are just insecure and dont have any self worth. Im thinking the name slut was made up by some one who was angry or maybe uncomfortable with themselves, just wondering, did you want to do that or did you think you would get some love in return? hon, I dont think guys like girls who give blo jobs or any other kind of sex right away like that. they will use a girl like that but that will be all.
2006-08-03 10:58:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess the danger is appearing shallow. I mean having a penis that you've only known for 2 hours in your mouth could be seen as quite intense. My advice is wait til at least 4 hours before getting that full on
2006-08-03 10:53:08 · answer #8 · answered by AndyH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off. Your awesome if it is indeed you. but as to why she is caled a slut, its because your giving yourself out to easy when you should care about how much your worth. Even if you give head on a first date there is still no gaurantee you get a second. Be held to higher standard.
2006-08-03 10:53:30 · answer #9 · answered by omsuperhoops 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
huh? how many guys have you given a bj on the first date
2006-08-03 10:51:40 · answer #10 · answered by WORDZ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not really, only for a kid...
it´s very common to get a bj to the first date, I reallly like the openmind girls... and to give back the favour
email me!
2006-08-03 10:53:51 · answer #11 · answered by Doppelganger 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋