why is it ...?

Question

i am not trying to be conced but y is it that everone says u are beautiful and i dont see it guys look at me and everything why is it

i am not ugly but not as beautiful as they say

Answer 1

Because as women we are our own worst enemies. If someone says you're beautiful, say "thank you" .

Answer 2

Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder, as they say.

What defines real beauty comes from the heart first. It begins with open communication because that initiates a trust.

It is all about genuine friendship when you have a trust with someone, because that will last a lifetime.

Then it's all about values and how you share them with others. HOnesty, Trust, REspect, Appreciation, Caring, Sharing, A Sense of Humor, and unconditional love are just some of the values we all want and need that define us.

Then it's all about truly respecting that someone special in your life their sense of Trust and their sense of People., and showing that to them each and everyday as often as you can.

When you have all of these issues in hand, that defines true beauty.

Answer 3

girls always think there is something wrong with the way they look but guys could really mean it. I know from experience that I have a long list of things I think are wrong with me but there are guys who say I'm hot. I don't see it but not all guys are saying that you are hot b/c they want sex, some could really mean it.

Answer 4

because as women we are our own worst critics i mean we dont see the beauty that is inside of us as other people do i mean we always think that there is something different that we can do to make ourselves look even better than we do now.

Answer 5

well alot of gals have self esteem ishues my g/f is gawgus but she can't c it..... and only after 11 mounths of tellin ther ethat i kinda gettin throu.. but u if alot guys givin u atention than u propply r beautiful and if u have been called ugli in da past it probly through jelousy or girls feel better about em selfs when they make some 1 else feel bad about there looks..........

Answer 6

Your not being conceded. I am the same way. We are our own worst critics. When I am feeling my ugliest is when it seems like I receive more compliments. I also don't take compliments well and it sounds like you are the same way.

Answer 7

BECAUSE YOU ARE YOUR OWN WORST ENEMY. AS SO IS EVERY OTHER FEMALE HERE. WE NITPICK OURSELVES AND ALL WE USUALLY SEE IS OUR FLAWS. I WAS A MODEL FOR 14 YEARS AND THOUGHT THE SAME THING. I STILL DO. IN TODAYS SOCIETY WE COMPARE OURSELVES TO OTHER WOMEN AND WHAT WE WISHED WE LOOKED LIKE. I HAVE RECENTLY TRIED LOVING THE SKIN I AM IN.. A BATTLE YES BUT ITS MAKING LIFE EASIER FOR ME AND MY HUSBAND... GOOD LUCK

Answer 8

You can't see you like they do.You are FEMALE.They are looking at you through MALE eye's. Say thank you,and smile.

Answer 9

Well, maybe they do not have the courage to look at you in the face but they do it discreetly.

Answer 10

your trying to be modest just as your mother taught you to be