Me and my ex have become good friends,and we hang out and hug and kiss.We both seem to enjoy the time that we spend together and we both no thats it's clear that we could never be together again,but will I do if he gets another girlfriend will I be hurt even though were just friends.Should I just let the friendship go because I know theres no chance of us to be together again I need help
2006-08-03 10:19:47 · 11 answers · asked by purple_dogs_bed 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can still be friends just don't kiss. That's more of a relationship thing than a friend thing. You might be jealous if he dates other people but that will go away with time. There's no sense in depriving yourself of a good friendship. Good luck.
2006-08-03 10:23:32 · answer #1 · answered by italian_swim_chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can still be friends but the whole friends with benefits thing needs to stop. Regardless of what you both say and how you think you will feel it will be hard when one of you finds someone new. Relationships like friends with benefits rarely work out for the best. If you really care about each other than either get back together or be strictly friends, not something in the middle.
2006-08-03 17:25:19 · answer #2 · answered by ????? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have answered this already - what will you do if you get hurt. Why put yourself in this situation if you feel this could be a problem. Maybe you should relook at the whole situation. Is it just becasue you do not want to see him with someone else or do you still have feelings. If there are still feelings, better sort them out now. Good luck. Dont hang on just becasue you think you will be lonely.
2006-08-03 17:24:50 · answer #3 · answered by Red Robin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you still love him, let him go, it would be painful for you to see him with someone else. If you both know that that you're never getting back together, you should stop that "friendship", you're stringing each other along and that's not fair. Make up your mind.
2006-08-03 17:24:55 · answer #4 · answered by interpreters_are_hot 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your heart, if you feel that you are just going to end up hurt then it's time to let it go. You will be much better off in the end.
2006-08-03 17:26:11 · answer #5 · answered by Jennifer B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you giving up yourself to someone who you have already established it isn't going to work with? If it isn't going to work, then move on. Is your 'stuff' that insignificant that you don't ratione it out?
2006-08-03 17:26:27 · answer #6 · answered by Queen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't say why you can't be together.
And it you really can't be together , F. Friendship, it doesn't work if you still have feelings.
So Move On
2006-08-03 17:25:31 · answer #7 · answered by Mr Justice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah sweety i think you should consider letting go. get out there and meet some new friends
2006-08-03 17:49:17 · answer #8 · answered by katwoman0463 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
best thing for you to do is move on and find someone that you can be yourself with and make u happy..
2006-08-03 17:24:21 · answer #9 · answered by April 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YEA GIRL... LET IT GO... YOU ARE WASTING VALUABLE ENERGY ON THIS GUY.. IN FACT I DONT HUG AND KISS MY GUY FRIENDS.. THATS WHY YOU ARE CONFUSED- YOU ARE STILL HUGGING AND KISSING ON YOUR EX... CUT HIM OFF GIRL!
2006-08-03 17:23:52 · answer #10 · answered by Holla!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋