I ask this question as I'm supposed to be muslim but love a non-muslim guy. I would like to know can someone have the heart to leave someone that they really love for Islam? What about the pain and all that you have for each other? What about if you have kids?
2006-08-03 10:13:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
You can do whatever you want to. And your children will eventually decide for themselves what to believe.
As for someone's point about grandparents having different beliefs, that is not so uncommon and - no where near as difficult as dealing with you and your man's own differing beliefs.
2006-08-11 10:22:46 · answer #1 · answered by Lee Um 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a Muslim girl and yes I would. Just think about the future logically.
1- Wouldn't it be confusing for the your future children growing up having two sets of grandparents who have totally diff. beliefs and views? You'd just be bumping heads around holidays (X-mas, Easter, Eid, Ramadan) That's not a healthy environment.
2- What if he DID convert (which he should only do so if he WANTS to not because he HAS to in order to get married), wouldn't there be a constant tension with his side of the family? I doubt they would except his conversion no matter what they say to you or him.
3- You shouldn't even be married to a non-Muslim guy let alone have children with him. A Muslim man will treat a Muslim woman much better because Islam orders him to do so and be fair to her.
4- Trust me, you will get over the pain because God will send you a better man because you made a sacrifice for Islam and God will never forget that He will reward you. you just have got to have a bit of faith which i assume you do because you seem really torn
5- You ARE a Muslim. There's no such thing as "supposed to be a Muslim".
Good Luck :)
I hope you do the right thing even if it seems tough at first it'll be alright :)
2006-08-03 19:40:57 · answer #2 · answered by Yaz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
These things will affect if you want to remain stuck in any religion . I think it is enough to be able to live as simple human beings, without the baggage of religions. At least in this age we are living in, one should be loyal to human values than to any particular religion. God is with them who love.
2006-08-11 07:15:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
yes as a muslim girl i think it would be complicated , like if there was christmas, and it was important for him to celebrate, i'd feel uncomfortable, because those are not my beliefs............. and if it was eid(muslim holiday) whch means so much to me, how would he feel , probably uncomfortable around that subject, will we go to the church or the mosque///////////////// we'd just bump heads
2006-08-03 17:24:06 · answer #4 · answered by proffesor 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Religions are what we have created for our convinience.But if you love this person then go for it
2006-08-11 08:41:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
you cant marry an non believer
what happens when you have children
what religion will they be
who will chose
how can you marry someone who don't believe in God
2006-08-11 08:37:07 · answer #6 · answered by purple diamond 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
wered u get that from?!?!?!
2006-08-11 16:56:31 · answer #7 · answered by Husain B. 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋