what would you found a condom in your teenage kids backpack
2006-08-03 10:10:35 · 5 answers · asked by jesse 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I dread the day.....
I would sit them down and talk to them. I would hope they arent thinking of doing the deed, but on the other hand, it shows they were thinking of protection. Let your emotions die down before talking to them, if you lose it infront of them, they could rebel.
2006-08-03 10:16:04 · answer #1 · answered by Ashli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends on thier are 13-19 is a big differance and how mature they were (do u think its just something they've played and had at school or is there a possability they are useing them or thinking about using it neverles id bring up sex a how safe sex is so important they dont have to know u found it they all have that privacy and snooping around issuebut bring it up and let them know several key points safety,that it should be though out carefully and that u r there for them and wont get mad and be judgemental if they need birthcontrol- ud rather help now or deal with a std, or a new baby
2006-08-03 17:27:11 · answer #2 · answered by justwondering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how old they are...
Sooner or later teenagers will start experimenting with the sex thing, by the sounds of things it is too late to start with the whole 'don't do it' speech, if they have a condom in their bag at least you know they are being sensible about it and practicing safe sex.
2006-08-03 17:17:48 · answer #3 · answered by HP 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
truthfully, I would be glad that he is being safe. I have a 16 year old, and I have bought him condoms. I have no idea if he used them, but I feel better knowing he has them. I know that parents should be involved in thier kids lives, but in my opinion, if your gonna do it, your gonna do it, and I would rather you be safe. did that happen to you? have they said anything to you yet? well, I know its imbarrassing, but they care about you, and just want whats best for you. All parents are different. your might freak out!
2006-08-03 17:19:31 · answer #4 · answered by cutiepie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be glad that they are taking precautions and just sit down and talk to them about what they are doing. Face it, we cannot stop our kids from having sex. all we can do is educate them to be as safe as possible while doing it. I have 2 kids, so I am not just talking and saying things I don't believe.
2006-08-03 17:16:11 · answer #5 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋