I'm looking for comments from men and women...specific in terms of frequency, pleasurability...feel free to elaborate!
2006-08-03 09:51:09 · 8 answers · asked by aftermath 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Much hotter!!! Not immediately, because of the lack of sleep and all, but after awhile, definitely. You have to be creative with your time.
Most moms are too tired at night. I told my Sister in law that my 5 year old walked in on us on a Tuesday morning and she was shocked! Not that she walked in on us, but that it was a Tuesday morning. You also perfect the art of the "quickie". Get a lock and make sure that you teach your kids about privacy and "special mommy & daddy" time. At the risk of TMI, if you take long to "warm up", I would suggest getting a "bunny" to get yourself warmed up ahead of time. That way, when he gets home, you'll be ready to go.
If you're a guy, be sensitive of your wife. She'll be really tired. I understand that you're tired too, but she has to put up with whining and crying and being taking care of someone else all day. Also, being touched all day long takes a toll. Also, after baby, her idea of foreplay is you taking the baby for 30 minutes so she can take a bath, or doing the dishes for her.
It does take awhile to get in a grove, but it's it's definately worth it.
2006-08-03 10:50:26 · answer #1 · answered by Joanne M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex after having kids is tough for me because of trying to work it in between taking care of the kids, and getting some sleep after total exaustion from taking care of the little buggers. I manage to fit it in every day at least once. There are 5 days a month that he gets other favors instead. As for quality, It depend on if we only have time for a quicky or if we are really going to take it down. I try to fit the quality sex in about three time a week. I have six children by the way. From 7 year old twins to 27 years old. I've been busy!
2006-08-03 10:00:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me and my fiance had a great sex life while i was pregnant but after the baby the first time was alright ( no magic) i would say that we have sex probably 4 times a week, and I enjoy it now.. its just hard cuz the baby will wake up wanting a bottle everytime we start the foreplay so i have to go downstairs and get a bottle then go to my sons room then go back to our room and as you can imagine the mood is gone
2006-08-03 10:04:25 · answer #3 · answered by kayla_ann_simmons 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me pregnancy was the best sex ever. Since the baby has been born we only have sex if we are lucky once a week. It is pleasuarble, but the mood just isn't there that often.
2006-08-03 11:38:34 · answer #4 · answered by julia_haacke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know about most people, but i found it went down hill after having kids. My guy is always tired after work and im tired at the end of the day running after kids all day long. We're lucky if we do it once a month sometime, but when we do get the chance its very exciting.
2006-08-03 09:59:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It deteriorated, definitely. Frequency...oh God...twice or three times a month if we're lucky. Pleasurability...still the same...I'd go so far as to say phenomenal.
2006-08-03 09:56:55 · answer #6 · answered by brevejunkie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Much better! Not as often immediately after but definetly much hotter. Sex has only gotten better as we get older. (31 now)
2006-08-03 09:54:35 · answer #7 · answered by bradlandreth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What sex life???!!! lol. It is not THAT bad, but it does not happen as often, and if you are about to do it and the baby cries it tends to dampen the mood.
2006-08-03 09:55:35 · answer #8 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋