i need a llittle help with a guy?

Question

umm well i wuz dating this guy for like a while and fell in love with him...then things started happening with my family and i freaked out.i donno somehow he couldn't get to his phone i started worrying cause my brother is best friends with some of his friends and my brother was told that my bf was cheating on me...at first i did not doubt my love for him or his for me but then i started doubting cause he wouldn't call me. Then a girl messaged me saying he was cheating on me and that she was also dating him and that she was gonna break up with him.i believed her casue my brother's pressure and her. i feel like an idiot now.it has so far taken me about 2 months to get over him. he has been ignoring me the whole time cause i was sayin i was gonna kill myself cause like the other things and i felt alone like god even turned away so i started cutting myself then stopped because it doesn't solve ne thing. i just found out he has girlfriend...he went back to her. Does he stil care about me?

i also found out that the girl was lying........so the whoole thing wasn't true.......my only problem now is that my ex won't talk to me cause he still thinks i say that i am gonna kill myself....what do i do? would he come back to me and fix my broken heart? or stay with his gf even though i don't think he loves her...? he contacted me the other day and i said i neede to talk and he wanted to know about what and i said just talk then he said ok then nvm....its like hes afraid to talk to me cause he thinks that i'll get mad....i won't i just wanted to ask him how he was and stuff......will he come back?

ok some more details for you guys....i wasn't thinking bout killing myself just cause him as i tried to explain......my family my father and stepmother are fighting alot and i am terrified they are gonna get a divorce. i can't handle ANOTHER ONE! my mother is always asking for child support and putting myfather into possitions i hate him to be in.....my piano he has been talkin bout sellin it my only way of not thinkin bout anything....my brother i am so scared for him cause he might have diabetes or whatever his blood sugar was 170 befoer ehe went to sleep 77 this mornin....??? tons of other crap like that !

Answer 1

Hello !!! First I want to say that, you are a very ,very (Brave Soul) & secondly, I truely believe that your Ex-Boy---- was really never your reall friend, if your Ex-Boyfriend had a (True Intention) of being your friend he would had truely had been at your side being a (Supportive Friend) I can say though that your Ex Boyfriend was going out & seeing other people, while you were haveing a miserable time, does this sound like the kind of (Boyfriend) you'd want on your side when the chips are down???Now that you look at this Guy & think about the times that he was not there for you-is that the kind of Guy you really want??? I think that you are a very (Giving, Friendly,& a very open Person) I purely believe that it is your ex Boyfreind is the one that has not been very (HONEST) w/you ,your friends, & especially your (FAMILY). Nine times out of Ten will a Person come foward & explain His/Her Truth, than why has your Ex boyfreind not come foward & explian His share of the Matter??? This is starting to sound like your Ex has never been around when you really needed Him, & was around when only He wanted to be w/you. I really dislike saying anything (Negative about People) but your Ex sure sounds like the kind of Guy that only wants attention for Himself & only for Himself, if this (GUY) was really ever worth Killing yourself over,than you should know by know that He probably would have missed out on the (Funeral) itself. Look I'am being as Honest as I can w/out hurting your feelings! All in all your Ex Boyfriend never was your friend. Have you ever heard of a Rock-n-Roll Band called (Queen)??? Queen came out w/a Song called Suicide. try listening to it because,it they talk about Suicide & how you won't like it. I really doubt that He Cares for you because He has already proven to you that He actually does'nt. You said that you felt that even (GOD) Himself turned His back on you, well if (GOD) did turn His back on you than one thing that is reall should also be reall in your Heart- The only People that did not turn theire back on you was (Your Family) Please realize the Truth- You had a Boy but, not a (Friend). Your Brother sounds like a nice Person & I doubt that He would say something Negative. When two people meet for the first time it's just between the two of them & no one else. If your Brother had been in the same kind of relationship as your/s than He would'nt ??? I think that you would want your Brother to stay out of your Personal Bisiness w/people that you know.I think that maybe the Girl that called you was'nt really being all that Honest w/you. So far it sounds like your Family has been the only Honest People concerning your past relationship w/your Ex. If the Girl that called you & told you that She was going out w/Him than just how did She ever get your Phone number??? through Him??? You said that you are over Him now- is that (TRUE)??? or are you still unsure about Your Feelings for Him. I will tell you that from long Experience that - It is best to walk away from this Guy & totally ignore Him because He just is nor worth your time in life to be held back because of some (Irresponsible) EX, you are worth more to some one-else than He is. One day I hope that you will find (Mr. Right) Just because this Ex of your's failed you in the most (Misserale Way's) does not mean that the next Guy will. Try & not give up, on some one New. Try & keep a positive attitude, Move on w/your life, & keep in mind that your are not alone in this world in which we share. There are people in this world that do Purely Care, I believe that your Family does care about you & that is alot more than yuor Ex ever showed you. Please move on & try & remember that this for you was more than just an o'l Fashioned Lesson but an Experience that will help & guide you for the rest of your life- & your life sounds like a very (Sweet Life) because your Family never let you down & I seriously doubt that your Brother would do or say anything Negative about you & your Ex Because if He had than He would of had done that long ago, but did'nt. My best Wishes foe you & just be your self & forget that Guy because sounds like He's done thet same. Good Luck to you & just stay sweet & there will be Guy's a litttle bit on down the road. Rumeoui !!!!

Answer 2

Hmm... that's a hard one. I would try to tell him that you are deeply sorry. Maybe he really misses you. Try to remember the great times you had together and try to tell him about those times. Also, tell him how you really feel. I'm a guy and I personally think that girls can be really confusing sometimes. Just, let him know how you really truly feel about him.

Also, make sure that you two are at least friends. Friendship and trust are two very powerful keys in a good relationship. Without them, the relationship will fail. Become best friends and then try to date him again. If it doesn't all work out. I'm sorry, I know love hurts. I literally died a little while ago. So, I hope the best works out for you. I'm sorry if I haven't been much help.

But please, don't kill yourself! Please! Don't ever come to that. Move on if it comes close to that. Please, no one should ever die because of this. I know it hurts. But please, stay happy and smile. Stick to your friends. They'll help you through the hard times of life. Believe me... I know.

And once again... I hope it works out for the both of you! Smile! :-)

Answer 3

IN life, there will always be people who are jealous of whatever you do and whenever you have success with people where they can not.

Be mature about it, and out smart them. Use your noodle in figuring out exactly what is happening for real with that which isn't. Sometimes jealous people will put ideas into your head and cause alot of stress, putting more on you into giving up, so that they can have whatever you have then.

Remember this. Helps to have a cool head about the whole situation and remember, humor works whenever jealousy doesn't. Humor is just one way to deal with the entire situation. Remember it is your b/f that is with YOU, not anyone else.

Answer 4

1st no1 of the opposit sex is worth killing urself over bcuz after u r gone dey wud live life like u never existed.

2nd wen u talk to him explain to him y u broke of d relationship he might get a little mad bcuz u believed some1else but explain it out tell him u r srry. u can never know u might b able 2 work it out.

3rd if som1 messages u and tells u dat dey r wit ur bf make sure u get all d fax straight b4 u do somtin crazy. d only way u can believe dat is if its u best friend.

i hope u get through this good luck : )

Answer 5

u got 2 much goin on to be worried bout some dude! Try to let things go for rite now, take a breath, dont try dealin' wit everything at once okay? God loves you, and he's all u'll ever need.

Answer 6

go to his house and say u need to talk bring something like food or something else.
tell him everythinig whats going on with ur family.
if he ignores u leave him there is so many guys as fishes in the see.
live ur life and make babys this is the porpuse of life.

Answer 7

You just need to leave him alone..It sounds like he is just stiring trouble.. And hurting yourself for somthing he did is definately not the answer.. You need to think what is best for you and not just what you like.. Move on to someone that you can trust and will hang in there when things get rough for you.!

Answer 8

don't worry about him, worry about yourself. people don't just say they're going to kill themselves without some sort of thought about it. the last thing you need to do is put your attention on someone who's negatively impacting your life. you might want to seek help or at least keep your distance from him.

Answer 9

i dont feel like reading out all that stuff but all i have to say is that every thing happens for a daam reason just go on with ure life.

Answer 10

Don't kill yourself over a guy...because there are plenty of fish in the sea, if you get my drift.