I dated my ex about 3 years ago and we are currently on very good terms and still keep in touch, but she has a bf now who not just cheated on her, but dated someone else at the same time. Theyve been dating for about two years but she is so depressed in this relationship and actually said she hates him. She's not breaking up with him tho because she says she is emotionally dependent. I feel as if i still have feelings for her, but its gonna be long distance because our universities are about a 6 hr drive difference, except vacations. What sould i do?
2006-08-03 09:47:49 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well go for it tell her how you feel
2006-08-03 09:51:50 · answer #1 · answered by April 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's a question as to what you should do because of the distance between the two of you or with her not breaking up w/him, i think its a matter of thinking back why you broke up 3 years ago and if you both are still the same people you were when you dated, whats stopping from the same thing (whatever the reason may have been) happening again?
2006-08-03 16:58:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heh, my situation is fairly similar. My me and my ex broke up 3 years ago, she started dating someone pretty soon after, I started dating someone else a while after. This January, I became single, and this last June, she became single. We've been on very good terms ever since about 3 months after we broke up, hung out, went to movies together, stuff like that. We very well might get back together. One difference is she only goes to school an hour away from my school, so thats easier. Moral of the story : GO FOR IT.
2006-08-03 16:55:13 · answer #3 · answered by Phoenix 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not think you should pursue a relationship with this girl. She has told you she is unhappy with her boyfriend but will stay with him because she is emotionally dependent? This is NOT a good sign. You know you two will have to have a long distance relationship. If this girl is emotionally dependent on her boyfriends she will not be able to handle a long distance relationship. I suggest just forgetting a relationship with her and moving on. Her relationship with her current boyfriend does not sound very healthy. If you get together with this girl you will have allot of stress and frustration with her. Move on!
2006-08-03 17:10:34 · answer #4 · answered by strawberries 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is what you do go buy her a dozen of roses or her favorite flower and just tell her how you feel, And explain to her that you have feelings on how her now boyfriend is treating her, drive the 6 hours it will be worth it.
2006-08-03 17:01:34 · answer #5 · answered by Angela E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought I should get back with my ex...but then I thought, "why did we break up in the first place." There was a reason we broke up. So to prevent that from happening, were just friends.
2006-08-03 16:52:51 · answer #6 · answered by DancingBarefoot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont get back with ur ex not unless u guys broke up for a dumb reason but i say just be a really good friend that she can lean on
2006-08-03 16:54:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All depends on if he an good lover you have kept an hold of
him and not let him go
2006-08-03 16:59:58 · answer #8 · answered by smile 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have 2 be completly sure of ur feelings b 4 u go 4 it. if u know ur in love go for it. if ur hesitant, wait.
2006-08-03 16:59:16 · answer #9 · answered by Buddha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I really think you should move on, of course you have to be really sure of your feelings for her before you make that decision.
2006-08-03 16:54:13 · answer #10 · answered by cushie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that you will love her unconditionally and she can depend on you......that happened to me but he ended up breaking up with me.....i needed someone to depend on .....i now depend on my best friend......tell her she can depend on you...totally do somthin romantic...tell her she needs to break up and she can depend on you ......she'll break up and without her knowing drive down to her university and stay with her for a couple days......
2006-08-03 16:53:38 · answer #11 · answered by brokenheart235 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋