heartbroken?

Question

ok, so my boyfriend of 2 years broke up w/ me about 2 & a half months ago & I am still upset about it. Some days I hate him & other days I miss him & want him back. When he broke up w/ me he said @ first it was because I was possessive and then he told me he just wanted to be single for awhile. Well two weeks later he starts dating a girl who is 15 (he is 17) & she lives 3 hours away. And they only had met once before they started dating. I don't know what to do anymore. Ive been depressed for awhile & it feels like I will never get over it. Then school is going to start in less then a month and Im really scared to see him because I haven't seen him all summer and I loved it but Im afraid when I see him @ school Im going to get upset and the progress I had made will be gone. Do you think that his relationship is just a rebound? And he will ever call me again to apologize? I just want some answers but I dont want to talk to him until they break up. What should I do?

Answer 1

I can promise you without a shadow of a doubt that you will get over this relationship and your hurt feelings for him. The best way is to focus on yourself. Be a little self centered for a while (Don't go over the top) and you will be surprised. There are so many cool, really hot guys with so much to offer out there and you will meet them. You are way to young to be stressing over boys.

Answer 2

well, I'm sorry you are going through this, but i would just stay away from him. Eventually it will get better. I've had some guys that I was over in a few days and others that took months. But don't try to get him back. If he wants you, he knows where you are and if you try to hard to mend things, then you'll just seem desperate and thats a turn off, especially if he thought you were possessive. It is very hard, but you can do it. Plus, there are lots of other guys out there. Try to go on a few dates. You may not really like the guys, but just look at it as practice. Hang in there, it will be ok.

Answer 3

okay i had the same prblem but with this girl and she always broke up with me and dated some other guy for a month or maybe a week and then we got back together and i realized in the end that i was pretty much the rebound guys and i still havent fully recovered from all that happened but im moving on and i think u have to move on too because i was in pain for so long when she dated different guys. i say move on and get another bf. and if ur ex bf gets jealous and if u still have feelings for him u can always go back to him

Answer 4

I think you should make him sweat. Be sure you look you best when school starts back and strut your stuff. While doing this act like he never existed, he will want you back but by that time someone else will have spotted you and you will be able to move on from him. Most boy are not sure what they want so they try to have it all, he knows you care so he will date this girl and leave you holding on and when he gets tired he will try to come back to you, leave again. But always remember he can only break you heart if you allow him to. Take it from a older lady.

Answer 5

breaks always happen theres really nothing you can do but move on maybe in your situation you shouldnt be friends because all its going to do is bring back ur old feelings and its still going to hurt and make u real live your feelings you had or still have for him its only going to set you back so just try and let go thats the best thing for you...

Answer 6

I think that its normal to hate him..then love him. It was pretty low of him to go out that fast and get a gf. My best advice is to TRY to maybe talk to him online or threw e-mail, maybe not the phone or in person yet. But just to get things strait and tell him what your feeling, just so its not so weird when you first see eachother at school

Answer 7

I would try to tell him how you feel. Maybe make something special for him. Something to help him understand that you really do care about him and really really miss him. I wish someone would do that for me. I broke up with this one girl I loved. It killed me. I still love her and it hurts a whole lot. So... I would someone creatively tell him that you want to get back together. I hope it works out for you!

Also, try to tell him that you are sorry and ask him if he forgives you. If you really miss him, try to make it own.

As I said... hope it works out!

Answer 8

Its natural to hate him for doing that my best friend who was also my love wouldnt commit marry meet me since he felt he had to commit propose marriage I WAS SO MAD I HATED HIM but then that mad thing helped me move on lol there was another guy who loved me all his life plus his family loved me(unlike the best friend loves family)so everythings working out good engaged to be married to guy whose in love with me forever.