my pakistani boyfriend is so stubborn.. we got into a fight last night because i don't want to be his servant, maid.(read other open question) we have been together for 4 years and just moved in with each other 2 wks ago. iam confused because i love him and want to be with him but i have a full time job, and 3 kids to care for. he told me yesterday that i haven't done anything for him and that if i don't start he is leaving me. but i cook american food and clean the house, work and care for my 3 kids, what more does he want.. he wants dinner, but won't teach me how to cook his nasty food. help me..
2006-08-03 09:36:41 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honey they only get worse. my mother's ex husband was pakistan he was extremly abusive. Get the hell out of there. He will try to control everything. my moms ex told her if she got pregnant he will send the boy to pakistan or if its a girl he will drown her. they are pigs!
2006-08-03 09:44:03 · answer #1 · answered by jessi 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
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2006-08-03 09:41:17 · answer #2 · answered by Jeff L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two need to have a serious talk and figure out what both of you want and expect in a relationship. I have a bad feeling that it is two very different things and that ultimately you two are not going to be together.
2006-08-03 09:41:27 · answer #3 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a large record. i think of you should call it off. you're these days divorced and choose time to heal from that. seems such as you acquire engaged too immediately on your rebound relationship. do no longer make a large mistake and circulate with the aid of with some thing which you have maximum of doubts approximately, you will in basic terms be putting your self up for a large sadness and extra heartbreak. out of your placed up it seems such as you would be able to desire to be out attending to comprehend different gals and relationship around. what's the frenzy to remarry? Be single, savour, try the waters, get to comprehend distinctive human beings and then later down the line, possibly you will locate the guy who's actual nicely suited for you. there are distinctive purple flags there. Your non secular ideals are extensive. You 2 actual would desire to get to comprehend one yet another. there's a lot you do no longer understand approximately this woman. earlier my husband and that i've got been given married final summer season, we dated for 3 years and then took a 13 week marriage direction at our church to verify our committment. If there have been any thinking emotions we had earlier the marriage day we agreed to debate it with one yet another no remember how painful as a results of fact we did no longer would desire to make the biggest mistake of our lives. be careful and learn out of your studies. you have already been divorced. Take it sluggish and supply this woman the boot. you do no longer sound like a guy who's in a position to be married. you assert you experience trapped and you look at different females, you choose to savour your single life. %. your stuff up and circulate out and initiate up taking section in this time of your life rather of feeling such as you're trapped. sure, she would be harm, yet extra effective to break now than later. And who cares what every person will think of, to be easy, your buddies and kinfolk will probably supply a sigh of alleviation which you replaced your ideas. you assert she "ought to" be a blessing to you. If she isn't a blessing now, circulate on. you have too many doubts.
2016-09-28 21:13:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever seen that movie that Sally Field is in where the husband takes the kid to Iran and won't let them come back??? Guess what, you may be Sally.
2006-08-03 09:48:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He'll probably leave you, Angie! SO if you really care about him, and want to be with him, you better stop being so stubborn, and let him train you. Allow yourself to be his servant and mistress.
2006-08-03 09:40:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's cultural, he won't change, unfortunately some cultures don't look kindly on women. Be with someone who does, ask yourself why you are attracted to him, do you enjoy the bad treatment and if you do, you should exam why.
2006-08-03 09:45:55 · answer #7 · answered by Ruby61 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hoeny, if he's going to leave, he's going to leave.
the best you can do is take care of your kids and manage the best you can.
you don't deserve an abusive relationship, no one does.
get out now while you still have the chance.
blessed be and good luck to you.
2006-08-03 09:45:16 · answer #8 · answered by mistressmorro 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're bumping your head against a cultural difference that's likely not going to change.
2006-08-03 09:41:38 · answer #9 · answered by Nefertiti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might be a princess, but you are a fool if you didn't see this coming after four years.
2006-08-03 09:41:55 · answer #10 · answered by rilindy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋