Why do women think this?????

Question

why do women think guys are Aholes or jerks or w/e...for liking a girls body....now im not talking about the jerks who like them ONlY for their body...but girls even dislike a guy when hes like "wow she has a nice rack"...they get all pissy like we should know her personality first....why dont girls accept like science has...guys are visual...guys except that girls want protection and stability and love....why is it so hard for society and girls to accept that guys like a good sexy body? now of course we want way more than just that...but its on the list of wants. of course sexy is in the eye of the beholder. girls are like "why do guys freak out over big boobs"....guys are programmed by instinct to be turned on the hour glass shape..it shows the women is better at child bearing. but girls dont think of that...we dont like things randomly...we dont like fat girls (and girls dont like fat guys) cause it shows they have self control issues and are unhealthy...but yet saying i dont want

a fat gir(or for girls a guy) is so bad? and same about super skinny..it looks unhealthy so its a turn off.

well for one, i wasnt saying a guy would say that when dating a girl..thats wrong...........and 2 i was saying boobs as a easy example...it goes for almost the whole body

yall should know i just said rack cause boobs didnt fit into that sentence lol...sorry "rack" describing a body part is "sexiest" i thank the ones that like my honestly..its people like that girl that said its "steriotypical and sexist" that try to shut our opinions up.......sorry but i live in america...free speech :) btw im not like the guy im describing...i think looks is only good for the first 15 minutes lol...its what makes you walk over..what keeps you there is her personality.

Answer 1

I do not think that way because the 1st thing you look at is looks; you cannot know a person's personality the 1st time you see them. Girls that get offended by that are retarded. Anyhow for example, my boyfriend when he first met me, he asked me out because he was attracted to my body and my eyes (He admits it that the first thing he looked at is my a-s-s and then my beautiful green eyes) but he kept asking me out after that because he loved my personality and my way of being and now we have been together for almost two years and thinking about marriage. AND HE STILL COMPLIMENTS ME ON MY BODY NOT JUST MY PERSONALITY

Answer 2

Not all women feel that way. I often check girls out and i share it with my partner and he sometimes agrees and sometimes he doesn't. He thinks i'm a lesbian under cover for looking at a women in a certain way but i disagree. I would never do anything sexual with a women but a women's body turns me on more then a males. Let me tell you why they think that......because when is said from a guys mouth it sounds like porn. Instead of saying nice rack try saying god blessed her, wow nice size or something like it. It's all in the way men say it.

Answer 3

Honey, not ALL women are like that. I know that guys are built different that we are. I know that they get turned on by visual things..hell, I point out hot girls to my boyfriend. There's nothing sexier than a woman who's confident in herself. It's about a woman being self-assured and SECURE...me, I'm a plus sized girl, I have big boobs, and I'm sexy as hell...I don't care if my man looks at other women, cause know what? He's coming home with me..

Just for the record too, women love to look just as much as you men do...we too like a hot, sexy, cut body on a man...and personally, I think women are beautiful, sexy creatures..

Answer 4

You are not the first male to ask that. But becareful when you say that "when peole are fat, they are unhealthy" because that is not neccessarily true. It means that they have a little bit more muscle build than others. Everyone is different. And to answer your question about females, well, it's simple. Females don't understand what it is like to be a male. So of course they would get offended. If you fear that females will be offended easily, don't tell them anything about how you feel.

Answer 5

I would have to say that women typically think of men that way because it's our own insecurities coming to the surface. Not all of us can have perfect bodies and when guys do or say things about other women, it makes us remember the fact that we all can't be and look perfect.

So basically my answer is this. When guys do, say, or act in such a way towards women as to make the woman they are with think of the guy as an as*hole, it's because the woman with the guy who is thinking that, is being reminded of her own insecurities about her body.

Does that make sense? If not I'll try to find a better way to explain it.

Answer 6

lol, not all women think this way. when a guy i'm with looks at other girls i don't really give a crap because i know that he likes to look, but he's coming home with me. i know he thinks i have a great body and a great personality, which is why we're dating. everyone needs a little eye candy.

its mostly about insecurity, or if you give the girl a reason to not trust you. be careful of both. if your girl is insecure, then you'll spend all your time trying to reassure her, which get's old fast. if you give her a reason to suspect you, then you should lay off the hookers, lol.

but honestly, i know guys, and i know how they think because (i know this is gonna sound crazy) i actually listen when i talk to them. i like assholes though, they seem to be the only ones who can handle me.

Answer 7

So your telling me that if your with a girl and she looks at some guys crouch and she says what a nice pipe it wouldn't bother you, or or ribbed chest hunk of a man. Now a days its not child bearing coz we do look alot but we do have the respect not to say anything when we are with our spouse. So my advice is to yes look not that your eyes fall out but don't speak coz we already know what your thinking and it save on the arguments HAVE RESPECT or be a PIG without a girl.

Answer 8

I don't. I am 24 years old, 5"6' 130 pounds pretty good package and I do not mind when guys look and think of me as being sexy. And I have no problem listening to them describing other pretty women as sexy-even if its my boyfriend. But as I told him tons of times, he should not get mad if somehow Brad Pit shows up and I have an opportunity to sleep with him I will take it. I look at guys too and I would never be with someone to whom I am not attracted physically.

Answer 9

I just ask this right back how often is it a skinnier woman with a bigger guy vs a bigger woman with a smaller guy? Women overall are more accepting of a physical appearance. and women with the so called hourglass figure aren't overly healthy for child birth. being skinny means a smaller opening in the pelvis. That is why so many "models" have c-sections

Answer 10

honestly I'm not one of those girls. i do know why girls think that though.. some are to immature to operate the finer things in life including compliments. some are too damn stuck up to even realize what guys are thinking they always think that it is sexual or something to do with that. granted yes we do think about stability and relationships but honestly some are too dumb to think of who they want it with and scared. i am a skinny person with what do you call it reasonable boobs Lil and i do think about that comment on the whole fat thing. yes it shows cont role issues i agree there but some are attracted to that and some ain't. i don't think guys are assholes or jerks until they come back with a non sincere comment.