I don't know what to do should I have sex with my boyfriend, should I go out and ask sombody to help me learn the moves to have sex, or should I ask him to wait?
2006-08-03 09:01:45 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you have doubts wait, don't just do it because he wants it. if he loves you he'll wait till you are ready. I think that the first time is really special and you should trust your man and have no doubts about it which could ruin this special time. trust your feelings!!! and don't forget to use protection! good luck to you!!!
2006-08-03 09:14:16 · answer #1 · answered by heart_angela 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend is thinking of himself and will never admit that to you. If you can always keep that in the back of your mind your ok.
You will have sex if you want to and that is how that goes. Remember, experience is ok as far as sex goes. Too much is not good.
Also, if you feel pressured you will not enjoy it.
If you are unsure of how to do it. you will learn unfortunately from experience and also from just being in the moment with your boyfriend if you are under 19 years of age. dont have sex , it is worth saving your body for.
unless you beg to differ.
honestly if you watch an older porn by yourself. not all this preteen and typical porn of 2006 - but if you can sneak and watch this type of action on tape you will in your mind kinda know how to handle and comfortably complete the act of sex on your own. Your mom and friends may not be the best source to ask these things.
If you know someone who is experienced. maybe ask them but not someone you consider very close and dear to your life.
I am just wondering how old you are because that determines if you tell him to wait how he will react. if he is under 25 he will be either ok with the rejection or just you saying no and eventually if you still dont want to have sex he will leave you . rarely they stay with you.
but if he is over 25 he could be more understanding or maybe not.
Best advice is if you really want to - do it.
Take it all in slow. make sure he does not hurt you.
Otherwise ignore the situation and kinda change the subject.
Remember men are all about themselves in a strange sense.
That is why they all have a greater chance to cheat.
I dont know what else to tell ya. but good luck and best wishes
2006-08-03 09:12:25 · answer #2 · answered by Heather P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sure don't sound old enough yet. If you have to ask how to do it, then you answered your own qestion. You shouldn't even be thinking about having sex. Tell him no your not ready. Wait until you mature a little more. When your ready you wouldn't be asking people online if you should or shouldn't. Trust me. Remember it not just sex, there more that comes along with it. If you were to get prganet, are you ready to become a mother? That's another questions to ask yourself.
2006-08-03 09:12:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well all i have to say sweetie is think before you let it go. All the hell i've been thru i sure wish i would've waited you know. Some guys just want relations with no relationship. I think a girl's first time should be with someone very much worth it. Guess what?!?! Any guy that's worth it won't rush you into anything you're not comfortable with.
2006-08-03 09:08:17 · answer #4 · answered by shawn_0523 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WAIT. Until you are ready, until you're at least 16 if not older, wait until you are on the pill, wait until you are more comfortable with your body, wait for love, wait for a man who will wait for you, wait until you have read some books and talked to friends and understand sex better.
2006-08-03 09:08:13 · answer #5 · answered by Juniper C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok the biggest thing is that if you dont know what to do or ur having second thoughts DONT DO IT. more than likely if your boyfriend wants to have sex with you hes probably not thinking about your best interest hes probably only thinking about getting in your pants. I agree with everyone here DONT DO IT.
2006-08-03 09:07:24 · answer #6 · answered by tonyman20012002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will regret it the rest of your life if you have sex before you are married. I just got married and I would not have had nearly as good of a time on my wedding night if I had already spoiled it with someone else of even with her.
Don't have sex untill you are married!!!
2006-08-03 09:08:26 · answer #7 · answered by vanb11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how old you are and how long you have been in a relationship with your boyfriend. If you're seventeen or up and you honestly love your boyfriend then just go for it and see what happens.
2006-08-03 09:06:37 · answer #8 · answered by antiheroes_anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for your husband. You'll probably regret it afterwards and then when you get married you'll have that memory haunting you. Your husband is special enough to wait for, isn't he? or don't u love him? If you'll love ur husband when you get married, you should love him now, even before you've met him. So wait for him, so you can tell him that you knew he'd be special enough to wait for.
2006-08-03 09:08:00 · answer #9 · answered by STEPHEN J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the first time hurts...............he has to break throu a thin layer of skin in there with is.... and i heard it hurts rele bad and u cant have sex 4 a while and itll hutr 4 a week or so maybe a month.....so i can tell u more IM me philaris_03@yahoo.com
2006-08-03 09:07:19 · answer #10 · answered by philaris_03 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋