This is for those over the age of 30...?

Question

For those of you single or divorced raising a child...
Where do you find normal people...... Please only those 30 and over need answer. .....

Answer 1

The most likely places are those where you will find other people involved in childrearing: church/temple playgroups, youth sports (soccer), cub scouts, boy scouts, brownies, girl scouts, etc.

Answer 2

I am not sure what you are referring to as normal people as everyone has different personalities. Some people are quiet on their jobs and when they go out to have fun, it's a whole different story. However, I think I have an idea of what you mean. I don't know where you live, but I go to the Fridays at Sheepshead Bay and it is great over there. The people are funny and friendly and they all get along. I go to the bar instead of the dinning room and the bartenders are friendly and get to know you by your name. They introduce themselves. On a Friday nights, they have live DJ who plays different types of music so everyone can enjoy it. The people start dancing near the bar. You see people of different culture dancing together. You easily make friends there, especially if you become a regular. I took a lot of people there and they just loved it because you don't usually find people arguing and fighting, but having fun. You sound like a really nice person too. If you would like to chat some time, you can contact me by clicking on my avatar next to my answer and send a message. Take care of you.

Answer 3

We are all around you. I am a divorced male over 30 and finding a woman that is divorced and with kids that isnt burned emotionally and mentally by her ex is hard. Same goes for women that want a man at our age and situations. You have to find the one that you can best deal with.

Answer 4

I'm married and we don't have any children, but I am over 30. I meet most of my friends at work and the others I meet at karate class (where I teach). How old are your children? Maybe you could meet and make friends with some of their classmates parents. Get involved with their school or put them into sports (if they're interested) and make friends with the other parents there. Good luck to you and I hope this helps.

Answer 5

To be single and raise a child is no picnic......It is hard on you and your child(children),
As for finding someone normal...GOOD LUCK...I always say...."If it was not for us weird people, The normal ones would not know how to act"..Seriously tho....Try you local church,Local clubs(not bars).Local public pools,or for the internet interested try the only pure FREE..yes I said FREE site........ www.plentyoffish.com....

I wish you the best in your search and just remember one thing....Always keep your eyes open to all possibilities....Even the ones that do not seem to be your type..

Enjoy and Good luck.

Answer 6

Get involved in things you actually LIKE doing. Don't join groups or classes you're not interested in just to meet people, because ultimately you won't have anything in common.
Also, try the internet. Just make sure to meet anyone you find in a public place, don't let them pick you up at your home or go to theirs.

Answer 7

Not online! At least not yet! I wish I new... The only place I seem to do OK with is through friends of friends. I am going to a single parents dance thing next week, my friend swears by it. If you find out PLEASE let me know.....

Answer 8

Coaching, church, Hobbie clubs, Night classes, School functions.

Answer 9

at work, other friends

Answer 10

Work or church