ok, so my boyfriend of 2 years broke up w/ me about 2 & a half months ago & I am still upset about it. Some days I hate him & other days I miss him & want him back. When he broke up w/ me he said @ first it was because I was possessive and then he told me he just wanted to be single for awhile. Well two weeks later he starts dating a girl who is 15 (he is 17) & she lives 3 hours away. And they only had met once before they started dating. I don't know what to do anymore. Ive been depressed for awhile & it feels like I will never get over it. Then school is going to start in less then a month and Im really scared to see him because I haven't seen him all summer and I loved it but Im afraid when I see him @ school Im going to get upset and the progress I had made will be gone. Do you think that his relationship is just a rebound? And he will ever call me again to apologize? I just want some answers but I dont want to talk to him until they break up. What should I do?
2006-08-03 08:30:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Other - Health
Honey, just keep saying this over and over again:
NO MAN IS WORTH MY TEARS!
really.
he AINT worth it!
you're too pretty to be home cryin' like that. Living well is the best revenge, you just GET UP and Get out AND GO HAVE FUN and be cute and happy and when he hears about it, it will TEAR HIM UP to think that YOU HAVE MOVED ON!!!
2006-08-03 08:35:06 · answer #1 · answered by Munya Says: DUH! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright, first his new relationship may be a rebound. Judging by the fact though that she lives three hours away I would say not. I think that he wants to be single but also wants someone to be there when he wants, not when he doesn't want. With this girl he can see her when he wants and doesn't have to all the time. Do not worry about seeing him in shcool, if anything you should be excited cause this can give you a chance to find a replacement for him. You will get over him, no matter how much you think you wont now, you will...trust me.
2006-08-03 15:37:32 · answer #2 · answered by pleasepassthepepper 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should let it all out, tell someone who you feel comfortable with, write it all down, scream at the top of your lungs, cry. who knows. who cares? This guy is not worth it, he sounds like a player to me. but i dont know. Break ups are always hard, escpecially when your madly inlove with someone and they just leave you with a bullcrap reason. it takes a while to get over someone. it really depends on what kind of person you are, sometimes it may take you a week or even months. But you will get over it. for sure. AND if it was meant to be, then he'll come back. on the mean time, have fun with your friends, forget about that jerk, start fresh, get a little flirty and .. well just have some fun. and when you see him at school, play it cool. and act like its all ok. ..
or u can do those vodoo things
2006-08-03 15:47:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like he either was seeing this girl when he dumped you or that he dumped you to see this other girl. Either way, your reaction is perfectly normal.
No matter what happens, do NOT take him back. Don't worry about school. You can't run away from him, you have to face your problem, that is part of the healing process. Talk to a counselor at school as soon as possible. They are trained to help with these kinds of issues.
Time heals all things. You'll be just fine sweetie!
Good Luck!
2006-08-03 15:40:28 · answer #4 · answered by mynx326 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is about choices. You can stay depressed or you can choose to be happy.
The only way to recover is to be happy and see what else comes your way. Sad, depressed people don't reflect what people want in a date.
There's a whole world waiting and more than likely you'll break up more than once in your life.
Smile and get back in the game.
2006-08-03 15:36:35 · answer #5 · answered by voandginger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, if your still in high school then your to young to be stressing about this.....go out and find someone else and move on he isnt worth this much.....surely when you look back at this a couple of years from now you'll be thinking "what was I thinking?" Please, Dont make someone a priority when they make you an option...
2006-08-03 15:42:13 · answer #6 · answered by sweet_bfly02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think hes a a**h*le and you shouldnt feel like you wanna go back out with him- he lied wen he sed he wanted to be single for a while and its only good wen a guy is trying to protect you from something wen he is lieing ( and sometimes thats not even good) its bad if he just lies to get rid of you.
2006-08-03 15:38:42 · answer #7 · answered by Jenna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to look for someone else and forget about him. He's not worth it......
2006-08-03 15:35:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋