is it bad if i'm 20 years old and i didn't have sex yet. I had a relation ships but no sex. Is it bad normal answers plz this is not a Joke. Thank you.
2006-08-03 08:24:42 · 17 answers · asked by boosterspd 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No it is not bad at all. I admire your self-control. Wait until you fall in love and are ready to commit yourself completely to that special person. Remember, there's no going back.
2006-08-03 08:43:41 · answer #1 · answered by Rachel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't be ashamed of you situation.....its possible that you just haven't found the person to do it with yet. You have to ask yourself why haven't you done so. Are you waiting for marriage, the right person, or are you just scared. If you are in a comfortable relationship and feel at peace with your partner, try to explore it if you both are willing too. If you feel that you just don't have the urge to regardless of any given situation, you might want to consult someone who is better at helping you answer your questions. Don't let some of these clowns in this program make fun of your situation. Take your time with this. You'll be fine in the long run. I lost my virginity to a girl when i was 15 and it wasn't fun at all. I only knew her for two weeks but was pressured to impress my friends. I dint regret it, but it wasn't fun at all. If i had the choice, i would have waited.
2006-08-03 15:39:05 · answer #2 · answered by johnblaze 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best friend is 24 and still a virgin. It's not a bad thing and in fact, girls seem to be turned on by it. They just want to be his first. It's nothing to be ashamed of. You don't have to go out there with a mindset that virginity is a bad thing, because it isn't.
2006-08-03 15:43:15 · answer #3 · answered by lupering 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a great thing that you are waiting to have sex. It is important that you find the person you plan to spend the rest of your life with and then get married and experience sex the way that it is supposed to be...between husband and wife. Good luck to you!
2006-08-03 15:29:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It si not bad and i must say it is a good thing if you are a man cause now adays most men all they want is some good sex so it is good keep it up till you find some one who really cares for you
2006-08-03 15:31:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's not bad, you just haven't found the right girl. Don't feel you have to lose your virginity with the first whore that crosses your path, it surely doesn't make you less of a man. Just be patient and the right time will come. =)
2006-08-03 15:33:48 · answer #6 · answered by Susi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, I know what u r going through. i'm almost 19 and I still haven't done it. I would like to but I am waiting for the right girl. One night stands are nothing I want to be apart of. You just gun it out man.
2006-08-03 15:34:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. I think it's sweet. I've known plenty of guys to wait longer than that. Two of my best friends one was 23 and the other was 25.
and the girl who does finally hook up with you, at least she knows that you're clean :) and arnt hiding any kids.
2006-08-03 15:29:28 · answer #8 · answered by attila 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not really. My ex is almost 19 and he is still a virgin. Every time someone talks about sex around him he says gross. and freaks out. but no its not abnormal.
2006-08-03 15:29:14 · answer #9 · answered by good_gurl_4_no_1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude have sex,ur young live life.......by the time u know the girl ur waiting for will want to have sex for kids and ur not going to get in anymore cause the kids are around......
2006-08-03 15:29:51 · answer #10 · answered by Psycho-Minion(Jeff Hardy Fan) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋