i have a friend that i really like but he will not go out with me because he is really close friends with my brother, what should i do?
2006-08-03 08:22:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't push it dear keep it just the way it is
2006-08-03 08:26:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
loving someone like a brother is more real than anything. I loved a friend who saw me as a sister and would never date me. now he regrets it because our relationship has survived way past all his "Passionate flings." I did not pursue it, and moved on and married my now husband--who is a great guy. I have no regrets, but he does. don't try too hard. the guy has to realize how special the relationship is.
2006-08-03 15:28:37 · answer #2 · answered by hopscothchbunnies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he wants to be loyal to your brother and their friendship.You can either explain to your brother about your feelings towards his friend and start going out with him.In case your brother does not approve of this you can speak to this friend and sort out your problem. It's best always to love a boy who loves you and not to run after a friend who has no inclination towards you.In any case the friend has to come out with his feelings when you speak to him in person.So wait for the right moment and talk to this friend.Good luck.
2006-08-03 15:37:00 · answer #3 · answered by rajan kumar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect the relationship and love him as a brother because the minute you cross that line, things will get difficult.
2006-08-03 15:26:50 · answer #4 · answered by M D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes,you can but if those wheels go in to motion nothing will ever be the same. If something romance happens and don't work out you have lost a good friend.
2006-08-03 15:30:19 · answer #5 · answered by Tammy L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u can love him,
i think he want go out with u because he is afraid of Ur brother and and if u date him he wont be so good friends with Ur brother because he will be more occupied with u.
ask him why he doesn't want to go out with u
2006-08-03 15:29:44 · answer #6 · answered by Edvard F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can because like boys/men are the same they can never get close to a girl with out fall in love or start to like them. You was always there for them or you liked them for them not the close they wear. You liked him for him so he sees that there will never be a another girl like you so it is o.k. And he will start to like you like you like him you'll see but you will be over him.
2006-08-03 15:34:05 · answer #7 · answered by Aaliyah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes u can because you guys r so close.
2006-08-03 15:26:40 · answer #8 · answered by Raven B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you can love them, but you can't make him go out with you.
2006-08-03 15:26:09 · answer #9 · answered by Sharp Marble 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you can love someone like that..
2006-08-03 15:27:00 · answer #10 · answered by Male Sicilian Trauma Nurse 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋