Okay there is this dude that asked me out Sunday and I said yes. Well He has not stopped calling me and text messaging me. All of a sudden a couple of days ago my father got hurt at work so he pulled his back out. So I said to him I have to cancel on Friday because I want to help my father down the market. (we have our own family buisness in Boston) SO i was going to call out of work and help out my dad. Well he is like are e going out and I said no i can't. I told him no not a good time. So know he just texting me and says are we going to be firends or not. he is driving me nuts. Is he a ***** or not?
2006-08-03 08:18:46 · 4 answers · asked by me 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well first of all...im not a girl lol, but im just gonna tell you my opinion from the guys point of veiw....hes excited!!! he sounds like the nice guy that doesnt know how the "game" works...cut him some slack. all hes needs is a girl to tell him how to play the game...(like he should be playin a lil stand off ish...and having YOU call him and text him etc) i know exactly how he feels (i bet) cause i semi used to be like that...not THAT bad..but all it took was a few female friends, to tell me how i should act. now idk what you should do...i think he obviously needs to stop bugging you...but just saying "your a A hole leave me alone!" isnt gonna help him. i say after the whole dad thing finishes(sorry to hear about that) you call him, and tell him basically what i did...that it annoys girls to be so needy and call all the time, and tell him what you'd like....then if hes a jerk after that, dont give him the time of day. Tho idk if you'd want to date a guy thats thinking about dating while your dad is hurt...if it was me id stop thinking about the date and offer my help or back off. But all in all...CUT HIM SLACK :) hes just inexperienced
2006-08-03 08:26:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Drop him dear, he is tooo pushy and maybe he really likes you alot BUT he doesn't sound sensitive or considerate of your family ! If the guy is already driving you nuts, well, it may get worse or it could be ok, I would let him know that you will contact "HIM " when you are free and available! If he still persist and it annoys you, let him know that you WERE interested but now you are just fed up with him ! He also sounds young. Doesn't sound like you would do good with this guy. He also sounds lonely and desperate ( may be wrong) but I sure would want him out of my life. Crampy !! Hope this helps some. Good luck to you and don't forget... you deserve better!! ( just my thoughts)
2006-08-03 15:36:56 · answer #2 · answered by GardenGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is obsessive and paranoid and you should stop talking and seeing him immediately. Those are the first signs of a stalker or serial killer. You do not need to be involved with such a person. If he can't respect the fact that your family is important then kick him to the curb.
2006-08-03 15:25:21 · answer #3 · answered by fasb123r 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see a stalker situation in the making. leave that looser where you met him
2006-08-03 15:24:45 · answer #4 · answered by ree ree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋