Okay so heres the deal I am suppose to go to Canobie Lake Park next week. I am suppose to go with my best friend but this realy cute boy wants to go with me and I just dont know how to say no to him. I mean I have known my friend for ever but if I say no to this boy I will probably never get this chance to go out with such a hot ****@ like that. What do I do.
2006-08-03 08:13:06 · 19 answers · asked by RED BLOOD 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You apparently already agreed to go with your friend, so go with her.
One rule of thumb that my best friend always go by is boys come and go but your friend is always going to be your friend. She was there before him and she will probably be there long after him. Unless you break your plans with her. She may get upset and you'll lose a friend, and if you and this boy don't work out, you may lose both. Tell him you already have plans and try to do that another time.
2006-08-03 08:20:59 · answer #1 · answered by real_sweetheart_76 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If by saying no to this guy means you will never get this chance again, maybe his intentions aren't good. Because if he really likes you, if you say "I can't go because I've already make a plan with my best friend", he will definitely say: "sure no problem! what about next weekend, any plans?" or even better "what about we all go together, see if your friend likes the idea?"
If it's now or never he just wants one thing. Don't let your friend down for a guy like that - you will end up with no boy (as he will definitely not be a long last relation and no friend (and friends are harder to find, specially old friends).
2006-08-03 15:21:48 · answer #2 · answered by Mary7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer I would say is quite easy. Tell the boy NO. You have just promised a friend that you were going to go with them. If this boy is only going to ask you once then I would say he's not worth the time anyways. Have fun with your friend. There's a lot of boys out there...not only one. Take care.
2006-08-03 15:19:44 · answer #3 · answered by Gez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its obvious, choose the friend. You most likley won't keep a long relasionship with someone you call a hot ****@
2006-08-03 15:17:35 · answer #4 · answered by Hairy Lime 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard "bros before hos"? It's the same for us. Guys come and go, your girl will always be there for you you. Don't diss her like that. You can figure out something else to do with him before or after you go. If you do choose him over her just remember it when she does it right back to you.
2006-08-03 15:19:32 · answer #5 · answered by purple s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol well just tell ur friend about it. tell her next year or wutever u guys can go together but tell her tht this is like a once in a verylongtime kinda thing. i mean like u said ur not goni to go out with him any other time. so just tell ur friend will understand.
2006-08-03 15:18:06 · answer #6 · answered by MiiSS CHRiiSS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok u should go with ur friend bc uve known that person for a long time grl trust me there r plenty more fish in the sea.
2006-08-03 15:22:48 · answer #7 · answered by *~`h!8@Q 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask the boy if he would like to go with you and your friend. ask your friend for permission too ok. since it's originally just you guys.
tell the boy the truth. it's unfair for your friend.
but if you really wanna go with the boy..ask you friend first. observe her reactions and decide what to do next okay.
2006-08-03 15:19:48 · answer #8 · answered by Lin_Xi_rhen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well why choose tell ur friend u will go and ask if she minds if u bring along this boy.. tell her u want her to get to know him too..bc u like him if she is ur friend she will understand n say yes n support u
2006-08-03 15:18:29 · answer #9 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT flake on your friend. Make separate trip plans with this guy. If he is into you he will go for it, and understand that you already make a prior commitment to go with your friend.
2006-08-03 15:17:29 · answer #10 · answered by AJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋