Ok...this is hard to explain but I will try because Im really confussed should I keep it real by going off on her again or just ignore her and I have been ignoring this **** but she keeps doing things that arent right.
Ok I used to go out with this guy for two years and it ended badly. Because I found out that the last three or four months of our relationship he was cheating on me with this thing...that looks like Howard stren...and Its been a long time since I've allowed myself to think of it and its been 10 mths since we broke up. and all of a sudden she has this written on her myspace:
"it may be my fault he dumped you..but it's not my fault that we fell in love..."
WTF???!!! I dont even talk to either of them so....what would you do???
2006-08-03 08:07:27 · 27 answers · asked by kitty_in_wonderland06 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
FYI I read her myspace because a friend of mine told me that she was talking about it and I should check it out.
2006-08-03 08:16:49 · update #1
she sounds like a mean, spiteful b****. don't let urself become the same thing. don't let the past hurt you..think of it this way; if ur ex was willing and able to cheat on u, and decided too... he's not good enough for you. that's that. u have no business to do w/ him or anything else in his life anymore. he chose to be with someone else..not because u are not good enough, but because you're just not right for eachother. let it go..... if you really did love him, u'd want him to be happy...even if it meant letting him go to someone else. if he really loved you, he would've stayed with you... either way, something was not right, that's why it ended. keep it at that.
i understand, sometimes i look at my ex's myspace and his friends and family and wonder how he sleeps at night or has girlies leaving stupid comments, but he's SUCH a closet jerk that i just feel sorry for those people who think he's great. i know the truth. if ur going to "stalk", try not to let what u see bother you. what u didn't know wouldn't hurt you..so either stop it, or look at it "for fun", but not to get you upset. it's not worth it...
2006-08-03 09:14:17 · answer #1 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Awe, Kitty...
She WANTS your attention. She obviously wrote that comment in hopes that you would read it. You know what that makes her? (Besides being a homely, female Howard Stern)? IMMATURE! And, you know what that means? It means that, thanks to her, you get to be the adult. But only if you take the high road. Now, this may not be easy. Because taking the high road means letting it go. and, I should be an expert at this by now. Letting go can be so, so hard. And, either way, this dumb *** is going to think that she has won. Now, that's okay. Let her think that. It's probably all she's got. But, we know better, Kitty. Because she is with a man that she did not come by honestly. And THAT will bring on some bad jou jou. It may take a year or two, but have faith in this universe. It won't go unnoticed.
2006-08-03 15:58:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i would say that she really should not post somthing like that in a public form but does have a right to do so unless she actually identified you in the statement. But remember this she is telling you the truth. Wether she is trying to be vengfull or not she cannot help the fact that they fell in love and it is not her fault that he broke it off with you only he could make that choice. So I say accept what is and move on i bet there is somthing much better fro you to come.
2006-08-03 15:14:06 · answer #3 · answered by Rob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her. Sounds like she's trying to get a reaction from you which is what she did get. She might even read this question and know that what she wroted affected you. Moving on and not giving her the time of day will prove to her that you don't care. It's annoying and immature of her to do that, but it just shows that what she did still bothers her. She probably feels guilty and is trying to make you feel bad too.
2006-08-03 15:57:21 · answer #4 · answered by Mimi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this even a question? Seriously. Get over it and move on with your life. Stop obsessing over this ugly wench and her equally skeezy boyfriend. It seems pretty obvious she is only trying to start something, why give her the pleasure? It also seems obvious that she wouldn't bother doing this if everything was peachy-keen between her and the bf.
Leave them alone, move on with your life, and know that karma really is a *****.
2006-08-03 15:51:16 · answer #5 · answered by Goose&Tonic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore the b*tch. She obviously knows or suspect that word will get back to you and would love to see you have a reaction. Don't give her the satisfaction. The best thing you can do is not react and that in and of itself will be enough to make her mad.
2006-08-03 15:36:16 · answer #6 · answered by PMC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think I would give either one of them the time of day. What were you doing checking out HER myspace anyway?
2006-08-03 15:15:43 · answer #7 · answered by americanwoman22309 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore them
2006-08-03 15:19:45 · answer #8 · answered by Nadalf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should totally ignore her. She's obviously just trying to get on your nerves, so don't let her win by letting her know that she's driving you insane! Just focus on getting your new, super-hot boyfriend rounded up and forget about those 2 losers!
2006-08-03 15:14:54 · answer #9 · answered by Lindsay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd almost agree with her- it's not HER fault they fell in love- it's HIS!! He's the jerk that was cheating on you, sleeping with another woman(?) before he broke up with you.
Let her be a b****... she obviously still has feelings about the situation (guilt?)... let her stew in them and move on.
They say that the best revenge is a good life... ;)
2006-08-03 15:17:01 · answer #10 · answered by Yoda's Duck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋