I know this guy and he likes me and i like him but i have a boy friend! things are slowly ending between us but there is a chance they might pick up again what do i do?
2006-08-03 08:01:46 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Who every you like more, and who ever treats you better, go with. If you honestly dont have feelings for this guys anymore, dump him. =]
2006-08-03 08:04:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask or wonder, then it is over. If you can be confident in your relationship, you know it's a keeper. Sounds like you're interesterd in another guy.....end what you have and make yourself available to see where that leads.
You sound young, so you should date many guys now, so you can see what's out there.
When you have more experience, the guy you end up with will feel like you "picked him" out of the many that are out there....that's special.
Too many kids try to play like they're adults and "commit" to someone too young and too soon. This is part of growing up. Just remember, each guy you're with teaches you something about yourself and about life, so learn as much as you can from as many as you can. Don't limit yourself from the experience!
Each guy that hurts your feelings, only raises your standards (or should).
You have to risk being hurt or rejected to learn what you want and need from someone. You will get over it again and again, even if it feels like the end of the world at the time. You are a survivor, not a victim.
Have fun and good luck!
2006-08-03 15:13:47 · answer #2 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this might be tough... have one boyfriend at a time. Would you not expect a guy to treat you the same? Make a decision either way and give the guys some respect. Additonally do you really want a guy who goes after other guys girlfriends? Odds are he will do the same to you one day.
2006-08-03 15:17:22 · answer #3 · answered by jackson 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are supposed to be in a relationship until you are not. You are not supposed to base your actions in a relationship on what could happen if you broke up. If you are in a relationship with your bf then dedicate yourself to it and stop casting an eye at the "guy" on the outside. If you want the guy on the outside, then break up with your boyfriend - anything in the middle or in between just breeds discontent and trouble, and gives NO relationship a chance.
2006-08-03 15:06:16 · answer #4 · answered by two 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im with some of the other answers. is the relationship you're in getting boring and with the other guy is there greener pastures and more fun? which one can you see yourself with in the next few years? is this thing with the other guy just a fling for excitment or do you truly like him? these are the questions that should be asked before making the decision
2006-08-03 15:13:39 · answer #5 · answered by unknown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you get your first situation with your current bf handled before bringing in another guy. This would be unfair to you and both guys. If you and current bf are having that many problems, it may be time to exit. Don't miss out on someone who could be good for you by hanging on to someone who has proven that they aren't. Just think long and hard and go with your intuition. Trust yourself to do what's best. Don't let your judgement be clouded by obligation or being irrational. Good luck.
2006-08-03 15:12:31 · answer #6 · answered by intentionalmasterpiece 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if things between u and ur boyfriend is ending then wait untill it ends b4 u start talking to the new guy.u say that things might pick up,dnt wit for things to pick up if ur not intersted in your current boyfriend,just let him go n move.
2006-08-03 18:24:09 · answer #7 · answered by khadeeja 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL CHOSE THE ONE THAT YOU LOVE....if ever you chose the new guy...talk to your bf tell him the truth. coz anyways you dont wanna be in a relationship that your not happy any more....
to be honest the only reason thats why maybe your start liking this new guy coz your not 100% secure with your bf....so now i'm assuming your looking for attention and you found this with this new guy.
this is all up to you dear...what ever makes you happy do it...just make sure that you pick the right one...its very challenging for you with your situation right now.....just make sure that to get to know the new guy....coz to be honest guys are like that (nice... you know just a style to get you)....after that you will get to know him and his totally diff...what you expected. compare with your bf....both of you knows the good/bad in this relationship and its up to both of you....HOW YOU GONNA WORK IT OUT...LIKE THEY SAY IT TAKES TWO......
FOR A WHILE STUDY THE PROS AND THE CONS........FOR BOTH OF THEM...AND YOU DECIDE WHICH IS YOU THINK IS THE "BEST"
GOOD LUCK
2006-08-03 15:17:36 · answer #8 · answered by angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with your boy friend and go out with the guy that likes you.
2006-08-03 15:06:53 · answer #9 · answered by tetrisss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey hi,see u just think if u didnt have the second bf, and ur first bf got another gf and he decide to leave u, how would u feal.and take ur dsicion and also what if ur second bf leaves u.so think properly and take a decision which is best for u.i think you r grown up and have good sense.ok
be happy and my god give u all u need.
byeeeeeeeee
chris
2006-08-03 15:58:05 · answer #10 · answered by BLR_DEHRADUN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is no possible way that your current relationship will take a turn for the better, then leave...if you think it can be salvaged and that is what you want, stay and work it out..but you can't have both
2006-08-03 15:05:34 · answer #11 · answered by violet1656 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋