because my boyfriend told me to give him head but i didnt and he was made at me for long time, so i decided to just do it and i kinda liked it! i fell ashamed because me and my friends always talk about how nasty that is!!!
2006-08-03 07:56:00 · 28 answers · asked by PiNk LuvR'09 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Welcome to WOMANHOOD!! Sweetie what I came to find out about the so called girl-friends they are curious too and they probably already did it and if not once you tell them I am sure they will all hop on the band wagon~ That's how it normally plays itself out~ YEP~ Oh yeah do not get short changed cause we get angry too ask your BOO for some "Pretty Mouth" too. That's the grown and SEXY term.. Pretty mouth, guys get HEAD. We want some pretty mouth~ (lolo) Enjoy~
2006-08-03 08:01:49 · answer #1 · answered by HotPucci220 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You should definitely talk to your new boyfriend about this. Maybe since you were having an off day your boyfriend could tell you weren't really into it, or that your mind was somewhere else and that could have been part of the problem. Tell him that you want to give him head that he enjoys and looks forward to. You two could have a little "BJ Class" where you could try things on him and he could communicate what he does and doesn't like you doing down there. You should try not to get frustrated. Hopefully if you let him know that you just want to give him oral he enjoys and you want him to teach you he should be happy and get turned on by the fact that you are willing to try to make this something that both of you enjoy. Just try to communicate instead of shutting down. Good luck!
2016-03-17 04:13:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look there is nothing wrong with it . . .
Your friends are either young, idiots or had a bad experience.
The idiot idea . . . he pees out of it and you are sticking in your mouth. . . yuck. Come on girls . . . in most cases our units are the cleanest part of our body, when it is not it is very uncomfortable, like when girls have their period except without the blood or when a girl has a yeast infection.
As for the bad experience . . . their bf blew their load in their mouths and it taste awlful. Sweetheart, it is an acquired taste. Things can be done to improve on that. Or he blew his load all over her face because he saw it on a porn video.
It could also be one more thing . . . your friends are into girls and they perfer tacos instead of sausages.
Having oral . . . is normal. Taboo because of some religious idealist . . . but religion is a farce anyways. Now that your boyfriend is receiving, ask him to return the favor and lick the kitty. Usually this share oral experience is a form of foreplay . . . that really gets things moving.
2006-08-04 04:38:13 · answer #3 · answered by Tag Your It 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mr. Chivalry says, "Well, look at it this way. Did it kill or harm you? No. Did you please him? Most likely you did, because it is an intense way to please a man. You and your friends always talked about it because it used to be a taboo, and you all were following society's negative view of it. Now that you've done it, you can tell your friends that what you all thought were wrong. It is enjoyed by men and you actually liked pleasing your man. Tell them about your experience, and if they have something bad to say about you, tell them that they need to get with the program because unfortunately men make this a priority in their love lives and will get it from wherever they need if it is not met. Giving is not bad at all; and receiving is a whole lot better."
Mr. Chivalry has spoken.
2006-08-03 08:05:22 · answer #4 · answered by L Jeezy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it's not bad unless it feels wrong when you do it. If you like it then thats good...I give head to and I've been doing it for four years. I don't do it with everyone though only boyfriends but who knows where they could have taken their asses...just get tested when you do it. I make sure I get tested even if me and my man do it I know I'm faithful but that don't mean he is. And DANIEL that was a very racist thing to say....i'm a strong HEALTHY BLACK WOMAN just like this girl!!!! Don't say that **** it's not cool who knows what you been doing DANIEL(Is it in your blood to be an ***???!!!!) You know you like chocolate...everyone loves chocolate and I wouldn't be surprised if you been dippin in some chocolate....Don't listen to Daniel and do what you do girl...don't let nobody judge you....DO the Damn thang
2006-08-03 08:15:30 · answer #5 · answered by Jasmine M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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because my boyfriend told me to give him head but i didnt and he was made at me for long time, so i decided to just do it and i kinda liked it! i fell ashamed because me and my friends always talk about how nasty that is!!!
2015-08-13 18:02:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend was mad at you because you wouldn't do that to him? If your boyfriend really liked you he wouldn't have made you feel pressure about anything and if oral sex is something he is pressuring you about.. then you need to lose him and go find another boyfriend. My mother was the kind of mother who would talk to her children about these kinds of things. She has 2 sayings that i live accordingly to. 1. If Jesus were there with you, would you have done it/? and 2. If your mother was in the corner of your room watching you, would you have still done it?? Those are sayings that i live by. Whether you live by morals or whether you live by right or wrong know this. NO man is worth feeling ashamed and being embarrassed. NO man!!
2006-08-03 08:08:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is not bad, your friends are young and immature...actually, it is safer than having sex, unless your mate has an STD...then you could get it on your mouth..but you'll never get pregnant from sucking co ck
2006-08-03 08:01:39 · answer #8 · answered by violet1656 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not bad.
Who cares what your friends think about that kind of stuff?
2006-08-03 08:00:37 · answer #9 · answered by Kittyfish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think giving head and receiving oral stimulation is the best part of sex. but if yo man was pissed off because you didn't give it to him, chances are he really don't care about you. he just wanted his dick sucked. he should have respected your not wanting to do it. if you think its nasty don't do it. and please don't be ashamed that you did it. EVERY woman will or has sucked a little dick in their lifetime!!! also sounds like your a little young.
2006-08-03 08:06:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋