I've been with my bf for 6 years, when we first started dating i was chubby, and now I've put on some extra weight, he proposed in Feb, and i got excited making plans, then he was saying that im not working hard to make the wedding happen, at first i was like what r u talking about, im looking into prices and everything, and he was talking about that I havent been going to the gym to lose weight. He thinks I owe it to him for everything that hes done for me, but is blind to how much it hurts me that he is putting conditions, but in his eyes Im wrong, i can see why he would say that i owe it to him, but is it right for him to make me feel like crap?
2006-08-03 07:55:14 · 55 answers · asked by delphina0723 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
His love is conditional..never marry someone who gives conditional love!!! If he doesn't love you for who you are....you're going to end up having horrible self esteem!! IF you don't already!! I would not marry him..you need to talk to him about how this makes you feel..and you should only lose weight if you want to...never for someone else!!
2006-08-03 08:01:48 · answer #1 · answered by beautifully broken 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No offense but what kind of love is that....Personally,I wouldn't want to marry a guy that doesn't think I'm beautiful no matter what I look like or how much I weigh. You dont owe him anything and its not right for him to make you feel bad it really isnt.If I were you I would think alot about whether your sure that this is the guy you want to spend your life with.Good luck!
2006-08-03 08:21:16 · answer #2 · answered by britt_lucky_8 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does not love you!! Love has no conditions attached to it! If you marry him and lets say at some point you put on a few pounds becuase you've had kids or for some other reason, he'll go on and cheat on you. Then his card will be "Well you knew that I wanted you slim from the beginning!"
don't do it!
2006-08-03 08:21:19 · answer #3 · answered by english_argie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
turn dinner into a healthy lunch the next day by wrapping your lean leftovers in a whole wheat wrap add a little dijon mustard or curry powder for added flavor
2016-03-29 00:51:17 · answer #4 · answered by Sylvia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think ahead to how youll eat and exercise on the weekends its easy to get too relaxed on saturdays and sundays but healthy living is a 7 day a week endeavor
2016-05-24 00:29:56 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a handful of unsalted pumpkin seeds make for a healthy mid day snack theyre rich in magnesium which helps lower blood pressure
2016-01-28 01:22:01 · answer #6 · answered by Fern 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out your calorie requirements
2017-04-07 08:08:29 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 healthy meals 2 healthy snacks
2015-12-19 17:01:19 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
60 minutes on the rowing machine
2016-02-05 15:45:33 · answer #9 · answered by Dan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
play the nintendo gamecubes mario kart for 41 minutes
2016-04-01 00:47:16 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋