your girlfriends daughter if you are in love? I am 34 and the daughter is 18 my gf is 40.
2006-08-03 07:35:39 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry ya'll need more info. My gf and her daughter haven't spoken in three years and it was just by chance that we met. My gf is already cheating on me and I know I am going to leave her that's when I decided to have another relationship with another younger girl who, at the time I did not know they were related. I didn't even know my gf had a daughter until I met her daughter a year ago. We are in love and are not as disfunctional as it may sound here. She is a great person so sweet and nice and almost completely unlike her mother!
2006-08-03 07:51:49 · update #1
Considering the circumstances I would say that you are not in the wrong in this case. Sounds like you are going from one extreme to another, dating an older cheating hag to a young little hottie. Good Luck
2006-08-03 18:55:45 · answer #1 · answered by Rex R 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hell yes it's wrong on so many different levels. First of all, you and the daughter should never be on that level. For goodness sake, you are like her stepdaddy. That is nasty. You should regard her as a daughter and then keep your johnson in check. If you found yourself attracted to the daughter, you should end it with your girlfriend and distance yourself from both of them. This could do permanent damage to their mother/daughter relationship. I have two daughters, 14 & 11, and if a guy even mentions more than once that they are pretty or that they are really growing into young ladies, he's history. So what if the daughter is 18, she's a youngster. She doesn't know what time it is. Don't do it. It is so wrong and this is not love. This is lust. Don't wreck a family over your desires. Be the bigger man and do what's right.
2006-08-03 07:56:42 · answer #2 · answered by intentionalmasterpiece 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On NO dont go there!!! That will tear up the mother and Daughter relationship. You dont want to be the cause of them never seeing or talking again!!! I am not sure which one you are in love with. Hopefully the girls mother. That is who you should want to have sex with. Sometimes a hot 18 year old can blind you from what you really want. But if she is 18 she is not ready for a relationship with a guy of your age anyway. She is still too young. If you have feelings for both. Then you should save their family and leave them both and never look back. Please dont do this to either one of them!
2006-08-03 07:44:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whom RU in love with? UR GIRLFRIEND or her daughter. And why are U tryin to have sex with an 18 yr old? Specially since UR in a relationship. A 40 yr ld wouldn't put up with that kind of bu!!$hit, U may want to be careful. Sounds like U should be single. UR not in love, UR in lust.
2006-08-03 07:42:33 · answer #4 · answered by Gremlin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clearly, the answer is yes. Cheating on your partner is wrong. It is even more wrong to do it with her daughter. Have the decency and respect to break up with your gf before you hurt her. After some time passes, her daughter can ask her if it's OK for her to date you.
2006-08-03 07:43:07 · answer #5 · answered by Otis F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's wrong, very wrong. And if you're really 34 then you already know it's wrong. I feel sorry for your girlfriend. I really hope she gets through this OK, what a terrible thing to have to deal with. But Damn I hope you get caught. Shame on you - and on the 18 year old. What a jerk you are.
2006-08-03 07:47:15 · answer #6 · answered by CuriousGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really sure, but it would put both women in a werid places.
I mean...how about if it does work out betwwen u 2, meaning the daughter is better than the mother.
If you see it through her eyes.."i am sleeping with the man who did ma mom"
ewww!!!
2006-08-03 07:43:44 · answer #7 · answered by *~`h!8@Q 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya nasty, how could u do that i mean besides the fact its not morally right u r also about to break up a mother daughter bond bc u cant keep ur penis in ur pants, and ur both in love, why dient u break it off with her mom first then, i tell u why bc both of u r selfish back stabbing nasty cheaters, n what kind of daughter hates her mother that much
2006-08-03 07:42:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
god no that should be the reason you started dating the mother. I mean you are in love. with a child. i mean she is problably really mature for her age. with a great rack unlike her gross mom. heres what you do. marry the mom so she can take care of you. then knock the daughter up so you can be its dad and grandfather.
2006-08-03 07:42:58 · answer #9 · answered by superdude123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait u got a girlfriend but fell in love with her daughter that is crazy man u need someone closer to ur age
2006-08-03 07:40:18 · answer #10 · answered by spoyledmama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋