Ok well this boy i like he hits on me when he is on drugs but i love him alot and whens he is not on drugs he is A PRINCE WHAT SHOULD I DO?
2006-08-03 07:33:24 · 33 answers · asked by blackgirlsexychick_18 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should leave him. Abuse, in whatever state of mind, is still abuse. No one should have to deal with that. Leave him before things get out of hand.
2006-08-03 07:37:38 · answer #1 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You can love him all you want but you shouldn't take that from him!! If he beats you when he's on drugs its only a matter of time before he does it when he's clean too. You deserve so much better then that no woman should get hit no matter the circumstance. If he really loved you he wouldn't do drugs. You can try to get him help but if he doesn't want it it won't do any good. Just get away for now. When he's clean if you still love him then work things out but for now leave. Be strong and realize you don't deserve to get hit and a real man would never touch you like that. Best of Luck---XOXO
2006-08-03 07:44:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant help him if doesnt want to be helped, for a man to hit you is disgusting and for you to stay put and take him hitting you is completly stupid, a man never has the right to hit a woman. for you to forgive him after he beats you is giving him the freedom to hit you again as he knows he wlll get away with it, cause you'll forgive him. If he hasnt already given up the drugs for you he obviously loves the drugs more than you, do you really want to be in that kind of a relationship. You need to leave him, stand on your own two feet, he needs to know what hes missing and how bad he has been, leave him, let him get on with his life if you can call it alife, your worth alot more than someones beat bag! please leave him before its too late, his beatings may get worse one day and you wont be able to do anything when your dead. You should report him to the police for a assault too, he has no right ever to hit you or any other innocent person. Usually after a man hits you he does the prince charming bit, grovels usually with 'im so so sorry please i promise i will never ever do it again please forgive me, give me a second chance blahblahblah', its kind charming ways are pure guilt, forget the loser kick him to the kerb!
2006-08-03 07:46:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. Nothing worse than a drug user and a violent offender. The two make for a deadly combo. Face the facts and send him packing if you were smart. Drugs usually mean more to these guys than any broad. Face the facts. A prince on the outside and scum on the inside is still a scumbag.....
2006-08-03 07:39:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sabes que baby, there is no excuse a man should strike a women. If he knows when sober that he hits you when on drugs why doesn't he stop? If he really loved you he would. Leave him and when he asks you why, then tell him why. All women are beautiful (no matter race, height, weight, religion, etc...) and should not have to go through what is happening to you. Take care babe.
2006-08-03 07:46:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should dump him if het hits and if he does drugs you should turn him in to the police cause he has no reason to hit you and do drugs eventho hes is a prince when hes not on drugs. he could get you into drugs and you could become addicted so you should find another man cause its not rite for him to hit women and do drugs. but if he dosent leave call the cops
2006-08-03 07:39:43 · answer #6 · answered by nick t 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you realy love this guy then get him in to a drug rehab program to get him off the drugs.
tell him that you are going to leave him while he gets professional help. tell him that you love him, but you hate how he treats you when he is on the drugs.
i'd seriosly recommend you move to a guy who does not do drugs and who does not beat you.
only you can decide what is best for you. but the likely hood is that unless he gets professional help one of these days he may well killyou while on the drugs. so get out unless or untill he gets clean and drug free.
2006-08-03 07:40:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love him all you want from a distance, but get the hell away from him. He doesn't HAVE to take drugs anyway so that's no basis for accepting his behavior...(plus there are plenty of people who likewise take drugs that don't resort to abusing other people) so, put excusing that crap out of your mind and focus of establishing healthy, stable relationships that will fulfill you and help you grow as a person. Life's too short to spend time trying to work out other people's BS.
2006-08-03 07:43:27 · answer #8 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him into Narcotics Anonymous. All well and good that he's so great when he's sober. But it'll be a shame when he ends up killing you in a fit of drug induced rage.
I know folks like that, one friend of Mine is a great guy when he's sober. He starts drinking, turns into a raging angry idiot. He's been in and out of jail most of his life because of it.
If he won't stop using drugs, or won't go to NA, then I hope you love being a punching bag, cause it'll just keep happening, and keep getting worse.
2006-08-03 07:39:08 · answer #9 · answered by cloaked30m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should help him to get rid of drugs
It is not easy, girl. Maybe you can`t but you have to try. Ask doctors, visit hospitals.
If he stops uing drugs all will be ok, i am sure.
If no, you must leave him and find someone another.
You shouldn`t waste your life and enjoy beating, Dear!!
good luck!
2006-08-03 07:36:45 · answer #10 · answered by MissRussia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away this guy even not on drugs. He wont love as much as he does the drug. Find someone else
2006-08-03 07:39:28 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋