if u like both guys..how do you know which one to ditch??? help
2006-08-03 06:38:02 · 32 answers · asked by SenSored 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As long as everyone understands that the relationship is not exclusive, i.e. they can also date other girls at the same time.
2006-08-03 06:42:25 · answer #1 · answered by Sherry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how far into the relationship you are. I do believe both guys should know about the other guy, so that they can decide themselves if they want to stay and try or if they consider it something they don't want to do. I would say that if you can't decide (not so much liking both since they could both be great guys, but more being able to choose between the two) between them, you don't like either enough to commit to them. Which may mean if it is still early in both relationships that you might want to continue dating both, or if it is far along on both you might feel neither is really good enough and it might be time to leave both.
Basically though the most important thing is that everyone knows the truth so hurt feelings are limited as much as possible and everyone has all the information so that they can make the proper decisions for themselves.
2006-08-03 06:44:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't date two guys at once. They could both find out and end up dumping you so you won't be going out with anyone then. If a guy was cheating on you would you like it? No. Imagine how they will feel if they found out about you. It would break there manish little hearts. Anyway, getting to your main question, see how they act around you. If they look like they feel uncomfortable around you then dump. otherwise, it depends on how long you've been dating them. If it has been a long time then you know everything is going smooth and it could be looking at a long term and serious relationship but if it is only lasting short: DITCH!
2006-08-03 06:45:01 · answer #3 · answered by diamondeyesx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol how funny is this...
If you wanna date 2 guys then what you got in place is a need for a 'Casual' relationship. Now if your bf dont realise this or doesnt want this, well then youre stuck..
So either tell him this is what you want or learn to be faithful and not allow temptation get over you. If you cheat on him well thats bad..best thing to do is either tell him, or shut up and put up.
You never know he may not like you as much either and so be happy with a casual relationship.
the truth is, if you truely love someone or you are respectful to them, you'd never want another person, nor would they and you'd both have an ounce (UK) or a dime (USA terminology lol) of jealous.
Hope it helps x
2006-08-03 06:45:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How funny is that. Lots of your answers have come from girls who think it is ok to date two men at the same time. Now if that were a man we would be called a low life and sum of the earth (quite right) but funny how its different for women!!!
2006-08-03 07:16:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it isn't because one day one of them or both of them will find out and u would be in big trouble!!
I don't know which one u should ditch just go for the one guy that u think cares for u more!!
Or go for what is in your heart!!
2006-08-03 06:43:36 · answer #6 · answered by Music35 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im a shy guy, and fell for a really outgoing girl last year. Eventually she asked me out, found out she was crazy about me, and I had literally no idea beforehand. I was lucky that she made the move, otherwise it would have never happened. You might not be so lucky, so just get up the nerve, like Nike says, just do it.
2016-03-26 21:46:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not I used to date 3 or 4. Play the field while your young. Alot less problems and you won't get hurt !
2006-08-03 06:42:49 · answer #8 · answered by emileyepearl53 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES it is alright!! But it's only alright if you're really good at hiding it from each guy. Some guys don't care if you have another guy and some do. If you wanna choose just one, then go for the hotter one!
2006-08-03 06:42:23 · answer #9 · answered by Whorey McBonerkitten 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
errrr...noooo!
its not right any more than its ok for a guy to date 2 girls at the same time!
Grow up and stop messing with people's emotions...they should ditch you!
2006-08-03 06:48:00 · answer #10 · answered by lippz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋