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Question

my bf is giving me so much crap for thinking this other guy id hot and i think hes hot to and ive told him that many times i was just talking to this guy and he flipped out then he asked if i thought he was hot and i said ya and he got all mad what do i do? do i break up with him or leave it alone or what?????

Answer 1

Why did you tell your boyfriend you thought this other guy was "hot" when you KNEW it would upset him? Sounds like you did it on purpose.

Answer 2

If he cant get over it, break up with him. He needs to realize that you thinking the other guy is hot is not going to damage your relationship with him, and for him to understand that, he needs to figure out the whole trust thing in your relationship. Seriously, if he cannot trust you to not leave him for another guy, then you need to break up with him for being a controlling @$$hole! Or you could just be careful to never ever mention another guy being hot, but when he says something about another girl, give him hell!

Answer 3

He sounds like the jealous type. I'd reassure him that just because you like him, doesn't mean you're going to stop looking at other guys and thinking they're hot, and I promise you, he's looking at other girls and thinking they're hot too. If it was the first time he's done something like this, I'd probably tell him you didn't appreciate it, and drop it. If it's a pattern of behavior with him, and you can't even look at other guys without him blowing up, then I'd dump him and move on.

Answer 4

I say that u should just talk to him about it. He asked u a simple question and u responded with the truth. Would he rather have had u lie?Guys do it all the time too.And besides, what's the big deal?You simply said he was hot not that you'd date him.

Answer 5

First of all, that means he does'nt trust you. Because every girl knows that their man is going to look, but we dont say nothing about it.

And if you think the guy is hot, then hes hot. You boyfriend cant change that. So hes just needs to back off.

If that behavior continues, you need to let him go and never look back.

Answer 6

Put yourself in his position. How would you feel if you saw your man talking to a hot woman & then he told you she is HOT. It doesn't feel very good. You have to decide if you want to be with one man or play the field. Either way you should let your man know because it's wrong to string somebody along.

Answer 7

Leave it alone. Perhaps he will calm down and realize that you are a human just like him. It's not like he doesn't think any other women are hot besides you. If he's controlling though, dump him.

Answer 8

i would break up with him it sounds like he has trust issues. If he can't trust and if he freaks out every time you talk to a guy hes not worth it. he has to be able to respect you and give you some space just and leave his jealousy at the door

Answer 9

well you are damaging his self esteem and that's not nice, men always get downed for that, its no double standard in my book, you want him to trust you but you are not helping things, look we all think the grass is greener on the other side (men and women alike) but 7 out of 10 times it is not so why damage a good thing for an unsure deal. it may already be too late anyway so I say get out while you still can.

Answer 10

Seriously, break up with him because if he is getting mad that your looking at a guy or even having a conversation with one, then that means that he is trying to take control of your life. Break up with your boy friend before he becomes to controlling, that he ll even try to change who you are inside..