Why am I a spoiled brat?

Question

I have 2 get whatever I want ,when I want it, even from strangers.

Answer 1

are u Paris Hilton????......u sound way too much like her !

Answer 2

Let's look at this from the point of an unloaded question. You have to have things your way, anytime, from anyone. This sounds like most of the people I know. I would assume that you have a low self esteem. It would seem that you value feedback and acceptance because of your forum postings, however, do not realize how poorly you look in the eyes of others. You will find with experience that those who give you your way, want your acceptance and usually something else (ask yourself, where are they now) until their needs are met. Then you are expendable. When you cooperate and compromise with others in a non-spoiled way, you demonstrate to others how reliable you are and worthy of respect. Think of this scenario, a car that only starts when it wants to and quits with no warning, sputtering smoke and dripping oil --==-- or --==-- a car that starts up first try, doesn't hesitate when you press the gas and needs little maintenance. Which would car would you choose. Which car is worthy? Getting from A to B is great but what about the trip there. Consider it.

Answer 3

You are a spoiled brat because you munipulate people into giving you whatever you want you probably learned it fom your parents not that it is bad but some people are like that. Your not a bad person you just learn a different way just like every one else.

Answer 4

Because you never had a relationship that you wanted so badly that you were afraid of losing it.
You are a spoiled brat until you hit 18, after that you're a gold digger.

Answer 5

I have found that people can be divided into two categories:
1- self-centered= this category is self-explanatory. The person can really only think about their own needs, and some can not seem to understand that others have needs as well.

2- other-centered= these people realize that we have to share this rock with a lot of other people. They also realize that usually helping someone else gets our needs met too.

Our relationship with God is similar to this;
1 We either fear Love, reject God, and be self-centered.

2- Or we can embrace Love, accept God, and be other-centered.

Sounds what you might need to do is pray.
-Vic

Answer 6

Because that's how your parents brought you up, and you're accustomed to it, therefore you expect it from everyone throughout life. Sad though, people like you will have a hard time holding onto relationships, friends, etc. You'll eventually have to grow up and take a dose of the real world if you want to succeed. I'm not being sarcastic, either, I've seen this alot in my days!

Answer 7

I would guess that you might have a self esteem issue but with an inflated ego.

You may be too worried about what others think, but hide it with a tough facade, getting your way and not backing down. You don't want others to now the real you.

That or you never were taught to appreciate what you have. Unfortunately one day all will cross the threshold where they loose someone/something dear to them that might help them re-evaluate their life and learn to appreicate what they got.

Answer 8

Sounds like you're a control freak, not necessarily a spoiled brat.

Answer 9

its because your parents wanted you to hav a better life than they did so they showered you with gifts and they did everything for you like tie your shoe, do your homework and whatnot and they never said no to you and now if you dont get what you want you yell and scream untill you get it and thats why youre a spoiled brat. sorry but thats what i think happened. i think you need to get a job or something to help you learn to do stuff for yourself

Answer 10

Your parents must have given you everything as a child. Just like we did to out older daughter.And now its to late. She is going to be 26 and she still thinks everyone should take care of her.She has no job no boyfriend and 2 kids. Better change now !

Answer 11

You never learned how to accept "No" for an answer. For more insight into this, I recommend viewing Willie Wonka and the Chocolate Factory....either version and paying special attention to Verucha's character and what the Oompah Loompahs had to sing about her.