2006-08-03 06:07:04 · 16 answers · asked by Mia 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Try to work things out and figure why you don't like her and how it could be corrected. Remember when you marry someone you not only marry him/her you marry the family. So I say try to get along and make peace if you trully love him and do it for your own piece of mind as well. You could make it bitter or you can make it better -your choice. Good Luck!!
2006-08-03 06:14:00 · answer #1 · answered by Yahoo Anwers 5 · 18⤊ 6⤋
Well..it depends on why you don't like her. Does she cheat on your brother, call you names, is she rude to everyone in the family??? Or is it just a matter of personal opinion? If it is the latter, there is nothing you can really do...if your brother is in love and she treats him well, then you will just have to deal with this future sister in law...I have two sister in laws, and I like one better than the other, only because I know one of them better than the other...give the girl a chance, she may be just as nervous about you being her new sister in law..unless of course, she is an all around bad person..
2006-08-03 13:13:30 · answer #2 · answered by manderin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It only makes matters worse when you bring her brother into it. My husband's sister does not like me for some irrational reason, and I have given up on the idea of trying to create a relationship with her. I am simply polite when I have to see her at family functions and dinners. I don't avoid her, I just recognize that she is not mature enough to have a real relationship with and keep the conversation light.."how are the kids? ...how is work.." I don't try to get involved in her business, and I stay out of heated family discussions that she is involved in. I enjoy my husband and his "friendly" family members, and that is it. I did my part of reaching the olive branch with out being a buttkisser, and my husband can never say that I am rude to his sis. Eventually, he will get tired of her nasty ways, and check her himself. My husband did after she stopped speaking to me for over a year.
Good luck, keep it light, and don't take on her problems!
2006-08-03 13:18:43 · answer #3 · answered by nicolette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going through the same thing with my brother and his girlfriend. I would just sit down with him and talk about maybe how she does not deserve him or something like that. I know that is how I would talk to my brother.
2006-08-03 13:17:30 · answer #4 · answered by ♥omgitskris♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to try to bury the grudge and work it out with your future in-law. If you don't your brother will be forced to pick between you and her. I don't think you can win that. If you can't get along with her, try to just be civil with her. Good luck!
2006-08-03 14:09:52 · answer #5 · answered by tannedknight45 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though, I feel when people get married, they also marry each others family in a sense. But I'd say just be cordial with her only when necessary, being that your brother will be marrying her, and just stay your distance as much as possible.
2006-08-03 13:39:10 · answer #6 · answered by graciefaith1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You let your brother make his own decisions. Its his choice, his life. What you think of her is your problem, although I'm sure he would like it better if you liked her as well. Give her a chance though, you never know she might turn out to be ok once you get to know her better
2006-08-03 13:13:13 · answer #7 · answered by Sir Greggath 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id think ne 1 likes thr in laws so jus try n do ur best 2 get 2 kno her n if tht doesnt work fake liking her dont ruin ur brothers relationship cuz u dont like som1!
2006-08-03 13:11:51 · answer #8 · answered by teddy bear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you may not like her but he does,i have three big brothers and i HATE all of there girlfriends but I'm biased because i don't think anyone is good enough,but if you truly believe shes evil sit back and be there when he needs you,that way you get to say i told you so.
2006-08-03 13:25:36 · answer #9 · answered by angelina_mcardle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she makes your brother happy, you cannot possibly expect him to choose you over her. Just learn to deal with her. No one says you have to be the best of friends.
2006-08-03 13:12:01 · answer #10 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who's marring her you or your brother ! If she makes him happy and is good to him it doesn't matter what you think ! You will learn to like her !
2006-08-03 13:24:18 · answer #11 · answered by emileyepearl53 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋