what do guys REALLY look for in a girl??

Question

and what are the first things you notice about them?

Answer 1

What I look for and notice first are a girls eyes not just the color either the shape to eyes atrract me the most to a girl then of course a good body it dont have to be like a super model just as long as its ok its fine wtih me also a good personality not the serious type because I like to joke around alot and not wear too much make up thats about it what do you look for in a guy?

Answer 2

It depends on thier age, experience, and priorities.

Looks can make an impression, but good looks do not always make the impression you want them to.
Some guys are intimidated by really pretty women and avoid them, others want to "conquer" and seduce themand immediately hit on them. Some men assume pretty women are stuck up, or unavailable. Others assume they are on the prowel.

How girls dress says something, but once again age, experience, and priorities prevails. Too-short, tight, revealing, and provacative is sexy to some guys. It makes some think about sex, that you want it, or they have a chance to get it from you, or you must be easy. Others think it's trashy, that you must be a "bicycle", or that you have no sense of style. Other guys think it's too bad that you must not have anything else to offer the world, or that you have a really low self-esteem.

Body language, how loud you speak, and eye contact make women more or less approachable, too. If they perceive your body language as approachable....do you look like you want their attention, or do you look standoffish?

On some level, it has a lot to do with how they feel about themselves, for example, are they worried about what a girl thinks of them, or how they appear to them, etc. It depends on how brave they are about facing a possible rejection.

Not all guys idealize physical beauty. It may get their attention at first, but it takes more to keep the good ones around. There is always someone out there that is more fabulous or attractive, so just go with what you have, and make the most of it. Someone will always appreciate it!

Answer 3

first thing of cos is the body and face! u can't approach someone without knowing at least her body or face first right?

but if we wanna date the girl, usually is by the face. But everytime u see a pretty girl, she is always so far away so you will notice her body more than her looks at that point of time.

but different guys have different taste. I don't mind if my gf doesn't have a nice face. just normal size, normal weight and as long as i like her attitude which means going out for a long time before knowing her true self

Answer 4

Guys, look for girl that like them for them , havin some of the same interest , and knows how to treat and take care of them. Cookin is important also. First things I notice about a guy is how mature he acts , the way he carry himself , and the way he talk and treats his woman.

Answer 5

Ma'am, the first thing I notice about them is their body language and the way they speak...as for what guys look for in girls, well, quite simply put, it's the girl itself...Some of us try to peel away those layers of clique induced attitude and try to find out what you're really like.Of course, the bulk majority of us do take in the usual physcial details as well.

Answer 6

I really like for in a girl is, friend, becomes bestfriend and knowing she being herself she didn't have to press me at all. Being herself, inside personitly, funny, outgoing, understand, knows up and downs but talk about it, trust, commucation, show love, caring, giver, know being agreat Mom and Wife, wake up every morning to see her in bed and say good morning honey! woman that say Honey I love you so much, Love to do things, and ask for help and anything bothers will tell me. Open mind, don't care about what outside look. If she happy great if not then I will do anything to help her to be happy. All she need to do is being her self. if not being herself and getting married and things change then marriage will not last. It not love it trying to impress that all.

everything I notice first thing for this woman. I am deaf and I see everything same time and it great to have that eyes and feelings knowing that she the one. I married to hearing wife and we been married 9 years and have 2 small children and 3 rd due march 2007. Reason she is the one? She being herself being who she is. that is most notice about her you will never find. If try to impress me, don't care not what I want. I am greatful that I found her. I told her thanks you for being you. she smile said same with me thank you for being you. wow. my heart beat so fast every time I see her and think about her and even talk about her my family all the time.

Sorry blah too much but That how I really see in my wife. I was blessed. Hope this answer does really see what I see. Not looks outside, prettest ting in the world or it not makes me happy.... she very beautiful inside and outside. no matter what. sorry blah again.

Answer 7

I look for personality, outgoingness, Someone I can have fun with. the first thing i notice is looks (im not shallow, but your a liar if you deny thats the first thing you notice) I like eyes, and lips. Good luck.

Answer 8

first we notice the looks (body and face). after that we try to date them. Then we look at their personality

Answer 9

About myself.... I will look for her character , then her activities .. beauty is just an out course.. Even a Black bird has a good voice isn't.... Don't think all guys are same because each have their own way of look...

Answer 10

I have to be attracted to the girl. Because she can mentally be perfect for me, but if she don't look good, it can't work. But above all the girl MUST be honest. Honesty is the key to a relationship with me.