okay all his ex g.f tell me that all he wants is *** and i'm sick of hearing it so should i be concerned or what?
2006-08-03 06:05:08 · 16 answers · asked by lauren d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This guy definitly needs to start over. He needs to look at the horizon, see you for who you really are. Let him know this. He needs to earn your respect before he can get you into bed, and if he chooses not to do this, then tell him he can't have you! If he really does love you, he will see your point and will try to change for you. Otherwise, he is definitly not the one.
2006-08-03 08:20:55 · answer #1 · answered by violinchic135 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course be concerned. Don't let him use you. Keep the physical relationship at bay for awhile and concentrate on getting to know each other. If he bails on you then you know he was only into you for sex. If he sticks it out and really contributes to conversations then you know he likes you for you and those other girls were just jealous.
2006-08-03 13:10:05 · answer #2 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been going out with him,how does he treat you?There isnt much detail in your question,you should be able to see how he is by the way he treats you.Sometimes exes are bitter and sometimes they arent,my last BF ex warned me about his drug abuse and his temper and jealousy and I didnt believe her until I found out for myself!I wish I had listened to her!
2006-08-03 13:12:20 · answer #3 · answered by Sherry Baby ( Ethan's Mama ) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you are in the realtionship for the same reason, then enjoy it. If you want more out of this guy you're probably not going to get it. Move on to someone who will give you what you are looking for.
2006-08-03 13:11:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, ma'am...consider the chance that your boyfriends ex gf is pulling "the grapes are sour" attitude on you. If not, check it out for yourself and see his behaviour carefully and judge if there's a shred of truth behind it.You'll have your answer then.
2006-08-03 13:09:49 · answer #5 · answered by cradle2resurrection 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i suppose if it matters to you or not? :) i mean if you really think that is all he's interested in than that can be a problem.. i mean if you consider him to be the boy for you.. then perhaps you should ask ..or even though it sounds very manulipaltive and very unlike me to say you can always test him. hold out for awhile say your not in the mood.. see what happens.. than if he is only interested in you for your body than you should look into finding a new bf who will like you for you and not your abilities
2006-08-03 13:11:52 · answer #6 · answered by steph 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends.... If that's all he does with you, then maybe... But I have a feeling that this is just a jelous ex-girlfriend trying to get back with him... I could be wrong...
2006-08-03 13:10:07 · answer #7 · answered by Rob D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, then he just wants to use you. so kick him to the curb and move on. He is not the only guy on this planet, there's plenty who will appreciate you for ur mind. for who u are.
2006-08-03 13:13:04 · answer #8 · answered by A_Latina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you no take any decision on the basis of other (your friends) talk.
and second if you feel or any experience to give importance of only your body immediately break relation
2006-08-03 13:13:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes a guy who wants nothing of sex has no respect for you as an individual. He doesn't deserve you if you don't want to have sex with him.
2006-08-03 13:09:48 · answer #10 · answered by princezelph 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋