I've been called the *o* word how do i attract friends and a man ??????????

Question

also i want a real way to let guys know I'm interested but not by saying so to them really flirt i mean, friends have said i intimidate a lot of guys if true (they are friends what would you say) how do i stop, if not i have been told to cute (what ever ) but iv also been told I'm to assertive or outspoken to free with my opinion maybe so how do i change or should i change ( don't say no with no reason i haven't been on a date in a while) also i want to make real friend good people who i can trust and as i have drooped more than my fair share of friends clearly i need help???// thank you

Answer 1

First off!NEVER CHANGE!!!!!!!!sooner or later you will go back to the way you are.You can't change forever, you are who you are.And I would LOVE to have a girl like the one you described.(I'm to old for you, damn it!)You don't want to date a guy that you can intimadate anyway.Who wants a wussy? Look......if you see a guy and want him....TELL HIM.Don't stop being ascertive all of a sudden when he's around.True friends are hard to come by.I'm 36 and don't have people that I would really call a"friend".To me ..friends are people that never leave or ever doubt you.Will stand up for you even if they think your wrong.Someone that would put you first no matter what.Someone who would never cheat or steal from you.Very far and in between.good luck

Answer 2

the first word that comes tom my mind when I see "o" is ostrich. Are you an ostrich? clarify what you mean by "o."

it's one thing to say that you are assertive and then there's a way that you might be delivering your message. I say, just don't sound as though you are speaking for all woman-kind when you speak. If you speak as though you have a chip on your shoulder, then you will come across as a b*tch. If you speak because you truly have something intelligent to say, you will not be seen as too aggressive. good luck

Answer 3

I bet your friends never said you have stellar command of the english language...
Go back to school and take an English class.

Answer 4

its not hard to make a tru friend.just say hello! & start the friend ship.how to attract the friend think positively about friend & fairly & sincerily about man.