They will always ask me or call me if they nead smth, but they'll never ask me to go out or hang out with me!
2006-08-03 06:00:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Community Service
well, try this, stop offering to help with things and see who calls. When they all stop calling, try to make friends with some people who aren't pieces of garbage. look to some of the other kids who are normally left out of things, they are usually very good people they just look nerdy or different so all the "beautiful" people look down on them. If you're smart you'll stick with the nerds, as the high school quarterback has peaked at 18 and gets a lame job and goes fat and bald, the nerds will be successful and happy. Remember these words.
2006-08-03 06:07:38 · answer #1 · answered by sickandtiredinpa 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Right now people are using you, and no one respects a person that can be used. Stop giving people what they ask for. You might feel like that will result in total isolation, but you are in total isolation now. On top of it, you're working to do things for people who don't give anything back.
In order to have friends, you need to be a friend. That does not mean being a doormat; it means being someone worth knowing. Try getting involved in some activities that are of interest to you. You will find others who enjoy the same things. Friendships are usually built upon common interests.
2006-08-03 13:09:19 · answer #2 · answered by freedomnow1950 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps because you yeild service too easily. They know they wiillll get from you, without having to give anything. Make all relations on a give & take basis.
2006-08-03 13:09:39 · answer #3 · answered by Pink Rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THERE could be many answers to this. Do you shower? Are you needy? Are you hanging out with the wrong kinda people?
2006-08-03 13:03:41 · answer #4 · answered by badgurl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we do want friends, it's just that if you ask anything on here like you just did, you will get a violation, sorry buddy for the bad news, but they will be violating you soon....so hurry up and give me the 10 points first....thanx
2006-08-03 13:06:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those are not your friends, you been a doormat to long. Stop being a people pleaser. Just be a friend and friends will come.
2006-08-03 13:04:42 · answer #6 · answered by Tony P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they think you would not be interested in how they hang out or spending more time with them!@
2006-08-03 13:04:38 · answer #7 · answered by nswblue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you try to ask them out. If they continually turn you down, then you need to find new friends...
2006-08-03 13:40:41 · answer #8 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gotta be mutual my friend. If they don't reciprocate, then these are friends not worth having...
2006-08-03 13:06:29 · answer #9 · answered by onlyonholiday 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont wait for a friend to find you find your friend
p.s. some people are racist
2006-08-03 13:06:13 · answer #10 · answered by Zack from lubbock 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋