I am a plus size woman. I am 5'8" tall. I have wide hips and a large bottom. I am not obese but need to lose some weight. I express this to guys I meet online. They say it is ok. When I meet them they act like I never told them. Any suggestions so they know how I look for real and not just how they percieve me in my pictures?
2006-08-03 05:54:58 · 18 answers · asked by cottoncandysky40 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't go looking on-line it shows desperation.
2006-08-03 05:57:36 · answer #1 · answered by doc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've heard that many sites recommend showing a full head to toe shot of yourself, just so that way none of the other members will say you lied about the way you look.
Please don't think I'm being hurtful, but perhaps there was a misunderstanding on the guy's part as to how big you are. I agree that the men shouldn't be taken aback or anything like that.
2006-08-03 13:02:40 · answer #2 · answered by prettycute4u62040 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you send them a pic or two that honestly show your size, and they still act like a**es when you meet them - sounds like their problem. There are a lot of dumb people out there, for sure, but not all of them are this way.
(And nothing's wrong with online dating, of course! This is how I found most dates since I've been single the last 5 years - including my soon-to-be husband.) :)
2006-08-03 13:08:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
step up the cardio sister! At least you are tall for a girl.
Find a plus size guy. Thats all.
2006-08-03 13:00:08 · answer #4 · answered by Morty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u can send a pic of u online no need to show ur face but most people on they dont care whot u look like so go to a singels night so they can see the real u its better in person
2006-08-03 13:07:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can share the bodyweight ahead of time with them. My brother wouldnt mind that at all. Hes big too. Hes also 48. Dont know how old you are.
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2006-08-03 12:58:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this isn't working out for you, you need to change it. Go out and meet people. Go out with your friends and hang out and try to met people. Don't try to focus on your weakness. Exploit your great qualities. Be honest but dwell on it.
2006-08-03 13:00:41 · answer #7 · answered by glamr216 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
those guys dont know true bueaty .
im 37 have a little back there also but im losing it
how many have you met for on line? i have never made it that far with any
2006-08-03 13:00:00 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't unsderstand why u are looking for guys on the computer anyways. If men can't see passed your weight then they don't deserve you.
2006-08-03 13:00:45 · answer #9 · answered by Tori 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men don't listen and apparently they don't read, LOL
Have you tried places that cater to BBW and the men who like a BBW?
2006-08-03 12:59:30 · answer #10 · answered by SirenSings 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋