i'm tired of getting hurt all the time.
2006-08-03 05:48:55 · 36 answers · asked by dixie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No if your getting hurt more and more then it is time to move on cause if there is truly love then you wouldn't be getting hurt love means not hurting the one your with. There are men (or women)out there that won't hurt you.
2006-08-03 05:53:06 · answer #1 · answered by life as we know it 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anytime you're in a relationship with someone you're going to get hurt. This is what happens when you make yourself vulnerable to people, they have the ability to hurt you, sometimes knowingly, but usually unknowingly. You also hurt others, both knowingly and unknowingly, because relationships are a two way street. It is unavoidable and part of life.
If you close yourself off to people for fear of getting hurt, you close yourself off to so much that people offer -- friendship, loyalty, good counsel, basically all the things that make life worth living.
No one can put a hurt on me like my birth family, my marriage family or my closest friends, but the hurts are far and few between, and the advantages to having these people greatly outway the disadvantages of being hurt sometimes.
As someone who has lived life both ways, closed and unavailable, and open and willing to get hurt for the sake of relationships, I choose relationships.
2006-08-03 05:52:02 · answer #2 · answered by Rebecca 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are the one continually getting hurt you should start and look at what each relationship has in common so you can learn. Each of these hurtful relationships has YOU in common. You are probably aiming towards the wrong kind of partner. Try different kinds of partners. If you can't figure this out I would suggest a couple of counseling sessions just to see what you might be able to tweak in yourself to let you know you are lovable and wonderful and deserve relationships that bring joy rather than pain.
2006-08-03 05:53:00 · answer #3 · answered by Brent 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is. Keep trying. Eventually you will work out what it is that is hurting.
The key is to keep searching inside for the true you, that which comes from a place of peace deep inside you, beyond the hurt. When you find it and practise living from that space, your true love will appear.
There is no point in constantly looking on the outside for a solution. The answer is within. Painful at times, but very rewarding. As you progress, you will find you draw different people to you.
Good luck.
2006-08-03 05:58:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it just depends , if the person your with is hitting you then NO GET OUT you need to take care of your self and if the person you love is hitting you then they oviously don't love you even thought they might say it a lot.
If your feelings are getting hurt then try talking to your significant other, tell them how you feel and if they don't respond to that then just leave for a little bit and stay with the person but try to see as little as possible of each other. This way you both have time to think and remember why your with each other in the first place.
good luck
2006-08-03 05:55:10 · answer #5 · answered by audri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's worth it! The tough part is learning what you should be hurt over, sometimes people are just too sensitive. It does get better over time for most people.
2006-08-03 05:54:42 · answer #6 · answered by fortuitousoppty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're asking whether one should have relationships given that there is always the possibility of getting hurt, then yes, I think it is worth taking the risk.
2006-08-03 05:58:30 · answer #7 · answered by musiclover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never, get out while you still may have a little peace of mind left. Getting hurt has nothing to do with a healthy relationship with someone.
2006-08-03 05:52:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No love does not have to hurt. Hurtful love is love gone wrong. The good guys usually seem less exciting but they're usually roses without thorns. Take your time and let love blossom before you give your heart. It will feel good and comfortable and when he is away you'll bask in the sweet memory.
2006-08-03 05:55:28 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love something set it free....and if it don't come back......hunt it down and KILL IT!!!!! Just kidding.It should come easy, if you have to work on it,...leave it alone.It ain't worth it.It will only get harder.The hurting part is life,...and yes it sucks.Sooner or later you'll find the right one.Untill then keep yuor chin up and good luck.
2006-08-03 05:56:24 · answer #10 · answered by ronchoward 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋