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Last night, my ex's best friend called me to tell me that my ex has gone into deep depression because of me. The other week the friend caught me making out with another guy and told my then-girlfriend, who subsequently broke up with me.

Now she is depressed because of me, and deep down I like the feeling because I'm starting to realize how much power I have over other women. Not only that, but I'm now seeing a new girl (who has more value than my ex because she puts out more often) AND the guy I made out with... simultaneously... while my ex is still heart-broken over me. She believes that *she* caused me to become "gay" (I'm not gay, btw) and I find it more funny than anything... funny that she's so vain that she would blame HERSELF for my attraction to my other ex's brother.

If you were in my shoes, would you sympathize for an ex-girlfriend who dumped YOU? Yeah right!

2006-08-03 05:46:17 · 21 answers · asked by Evan 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

21 answers

I would get over myself. And she should get on with her life - you are not worth being even "sad" over.

2006-08-03 05:50:49 · answer #1 · answered by doc 6 · 0 0

How can you make out with another guy and not be gay? The answer.....you are bisexual.

As for your despicable attitude toward your ex and your totally abusive attitude toward your new gf, it proves, beyond a doubt, that you are not only gay, but are a closet gay.

You have to come out first and admit to being gay, or you life will be a living hell. You will be hiding and lying so much, to so many people that you will forget what you said to who.

You need serious counseling before you send anyone else into a depression.

Do you want a shot at redemption man? Call your depressed former partner and explain that you have sexual orientation issues. You OWE it to her. And to yourself.

And hey buckaroo, see a good therapist. The time has come, you ain't in Kansas anymore.

2006-08-03 12:55:26 · answer #2 · answered by brian k 3 · 0 0

Putting out doesnt automatically make a new relationship better than the one before. Just pray for the X. She will have to find someone new.

2006-08-03 12:50:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

your gay and a loser-as for power over women-stay in shallow water-there are women, like ME, that have ALL the power over guys like you. And as for making gf sad, your also weak and a cheater. o well-guess she is better off now without you, she will realize it i hope.

2006-08-03 12:52:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

no but u need to think bout what u said. I'm now seeing a new girl (who has more value than my ex because she puts out more often) what the hell dude? ur shallow.......

2006-08-03 12:52:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I am just glad that she is away from you.By what you said I think she deserves better than you.Her depression may not even be all about you.Check yourself dude and leave everyone else out of it.

2006-08-03 12:53:48 · answer #6 · answered by jill f 2 · 0 0

Nevermind, you are gay. Making out with other guys makes you gay, end of story. If I had been your girlfriend, I would be depressed, too, dumbass.

2006-08-03 12:53:21 · answer #7 · answered by benbobbins 3 · 0 0

she can die from depression so I wouldn't blame you for it but you did cause it so I would work things out with her to just make peace and not have anymore drama you know? So just talk to her and tell her what she wants to hear

2006-08-03 12:52:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Sounds like you need a self esteem boost. If you have so little self esteem that you have to hurt other people to make yourself feel like you have power your really sad.

2006-08-03 13:35:23 · answer #9 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 0 0

People worth sheding tears...would never let you shed tears...If somebody makes u shed tears...they are not worth it...

The girl is a fool to be depressed for this a s s hole...

2006-08-03 12:54:20 · answer #10 · answered by drashishrg 2 · 0 0

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