my boyfriend and i always talk online and i'm not too comfortable with calling him because they just moved and dont have phones so they have to use their mom's cell all the time.
lately he hasnt been online and i havent really had a conversation with him for the past 3 weeks. i really miss talking to him and he's just so special i dont want to loose him...
i know he isnt on vacation because he told me he wasnt going to me going anywhere...i also know his computer broke down, but since he told me about that he's still been emailing me from the library or even from his cousins house.
should i just wait for him or should i do something about it?
(i dont want to make it look like i dont trust him or i'm desperate to talk to him)
thanks for the answers in advance
2006-08-03 05:42:00 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ooh, and technically i'm not even supposed to be dating him...so seeing him jus like that is a problem, usually when i want to see him i have to sneak it
2006-08-03 05:50:34 · update #1
oh and when i said he moved i mean he just moved to this area...not away from me, closer
2006-08-03 05:51:51 · update #2
He hasn't done anything yet, so you should step in. There's a possiblity he's been grounded, and can't even use the phone or computer. If you're worried about looking desperate, then you can't care to much, besides you say he's special, so don't loose him.Just call one of his relatives, maybe one of his "guy" friends, and maybe if your parents don't mind use 411, and see if he has a new number yet. Good luck! ;)
2006-08-03 05:55:00 · answer #1 · answered by ~luminary legacy~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh man, this is a tough call. You know, if there was a pattern of practice between him and you and now it has abruptly changed, then you need to call him on the phone. Approach it in a concerned way. There could be extenuating circumstances that you are unaware of at this point. Of course, and I hate to be the realistic one here, but he could have met someone else, so you should be prepared for whatever answer he gives you. This stinks for you. Trust is so huge and can make or break a relationship. I think you do need to address this issue regardless of the potential outcome. It is better to face whatever it is head on and deal directly with the fall out. Be positive about it. You can do it and you will find strength even if it sucks.
2006-08-03 12:50:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like you said, he just moved so give him time to get settled in. I am sure his parents have him doing things that are keeping him busy cause moving is a BIG CHORE for the entire family.
If he is at least emailing you, you know he's still got you on his mind. So ask him in an email to let you know what's going on with him.
2006-08-03 12:47:53 · answer #3 · answered by Big-Sister 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, call him. maybe he is hanging out with another girl and cheating on you. If this is true, find a time when you think his reaction will match the mood he is in when you ask him " hey are cheating on me?" maybe when he is relaxed. Also bout the cell thing, i would stay there too long bcause i think he might have to pay and you may have to also. I think you should call him when you are ready. Other wise, take it slow and every thing work out
2006-08-03 12:49:05 · answer #4 · answered by Uchihaitachi345 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like youre getting the cold shoulder. Depending on how far he moved away, I hate to be the one to tell you that long distance relationships...well, they just dont work. If I were you, I would let sleeping dogs lie and wait till he contacts you. If it wasnt meant to be...it just wasnt meant to be. Sorry. Dont set yourself up for a larger heartbreak, your feelings dont deserve it.
2006-08-03 12:49:41 · answer #5 · answered by bros.parker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that if he really cared about you and wanted to still go out with you he would call. if he just moved and you guys are goin to have a long distance relationship then those never work. you should call him and see wut your statis is and if you guys still want to see eachother. if you arent comfortable talkin on the phone then it doesnt seem like you are very comfortable with eachother. online relationships are just so lame not to be mean but try doin fun stuff together and talk in person its much betteradn just try to be yourself and be comfortable when you are with him.
2006-08-03 12:49:43 · answer #6 · answered by katie a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
short of buying the kid a cell phone or computer, what are you going to do?
If he hasn't bothered to get in touch with you in 3 weeks, you have yourself a guy who doesn't care. Get rid of him. You're not desparate!
2006-08-03 12:47:37 · answer #7 · answered by Morty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you already know what's going on, his computer broke down and he can only email from other people's computers. plus he is probably busy talking to people and making friends IN PERSON in his new town. you should do the same.
2006-08-03 12:52:11 · answer #8 · answered by Crazy dog lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way you can really find out is just making ONE phone call
2006-08-03 12:46:16 · answer #9 · answered by laurennn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT SEEMS LIKE IT IS TIME TO MOVE ON. 3 WEEKS YOU SAY?! BY THAT TIME YOU SHOULD BE BUSY WITH YOUR FRIENDS AND DOING THINGS YOU LOVE TO DO. YOU MAY HEAR FROM HIM, BUT IT SURE HAS BEEN A WHILE. SO GO HAVE FUN!
2006-08-03 12:47:32 · answer #10 · answered by brxny2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋