is bdsm good or bad thing? i myself think its! good thing!a way for people who are not evil they just "think differently" it is also very misunderstood the way its always potrayed as upper class assholes being whipped by there maids or some other ****! are there any women/men out there who would love to be totally dominated or be totally submissive to their partner+ would love to role play but think partner would think of them as sick or perverted! your not in my mind! + i am sure there are a lot of would be,s or certainly would try if people were less worried about what others say/think,so what you think?
2006-08-03 05:32:59 · 14 answers · asked by sub-boy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's a good thing for some people. Maybe gives them some practice in the kind of treatment they will possibly receive in the afterlife.
Whatever cooks your biscuit (or bakes your cookie), I say.
2006-08-03 05:43:26 · answer #1 · answered by Owlwings 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
BDSM is morally neutral as it is a process and not strictly an end unto itself. This means that it can be used in a good way, where two people are mutually pleasing the other and generating a higher level of intimacy. It can also be used in a bad way, such as when a man lures unsuspecting women to be abused.
However, the general rule is that BDSM is a consensual activity, where any party can determine the limits of how far it goes. Going beyond that is true abuse, which is obviously bad. Using that logic, BDSM doesn't incorporate abuse and hence is not evil.
As it can encompass good, then BDSM can be said to have good qualities. However, it is still a morally neutral process, and not everyone will find good in it.
To answer the question, BDSM can be a good thing, given the right people with the right mindset. However, it is not evil as its definition excludes evil activities. You can interpret that as you see fit.
2006-08-04 03:42:02 · answer #2 · answered by Ѕємι~Мαđ ŠçїєŋŧιѕТ 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think if you find someone who shares your preferences, then it's a very good thing. If you're in a relationship with someone who doesn't like what you do, or worse, thinks ill of you for it, then perhaps that isn't the relationship for you.
Personally, I found what I believe to be my perfect match! We're both a bit on the switchy side and loving every minute of it!
2006-08-03 12:38:15 · answer #3 · answered by gonefornow 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah definately a good thing
as in most life styles they keep them selves to them selves
they do not push there life style in ya face thee is a large community .......and very nice ppl
be safe A/all
2006-08-03 13:43:24 · answer #4 · answered by FunlovingCrim 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's a good thing if it works for everyone involved
2006-08-03 12:36:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
each to their own, personally I love it, going to a bdsm club on Sat, cant wait..
2006-08-03 12:40:15 · answer #6 · answered by Dark Angel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a good thing as long as I'm the one in control
ON YOUR KNEES NOW
2006-08-03 14:09:38 · answer #7 · answered by Patchouli Pammy 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's your opinion that's okay. Others are just hard wired in to thinking that it is not. I agree my don't like that either.
2006-08-03 12:39:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me it's a good thing, it's just not for everyone.
2006-08-03 22:51:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think its one of the sexiest things ever...i love it!!!!
2006-08-03 12:37:57 · answer #10 · answered by ♠AirForceBabe1699♠ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋