My name is Nayyah and I am 15 years old and I lost my about a month ago and I feel depressed I cant eat right and when I do eat I cant hold it down. The only thing that I could really hold down is water.When I wake up in the morning I feel drained I cant stand up right.I dont know what this is Did this ever happen to you before??
2006-08-03 05:20:49 · 16 answers · asked by Nayyah 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
I lost it because my ex boyfriend got mad cause I was pregnant again and he want me to have his baby and I was pregnant by somebody else,and he got mad and saw me walking down the street and he push me up on the wall and started punching me in my stomach,and when I got home I passed out and woke up in the hospital they told me I losted it.
2006-08-03 05:39:55 · update #1
yes it has happened before my kid ran in front of a car right in front of my face and got hit it was horrible he was to small to save i cried fro months i tried everything then my Doctor gave me these little pills and now i feel better i think you should try them too
2006-08-03 05:27:35 · answer #1 · answered by elizabeth t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes hon I know how it feels to lose a baby. I went onto a path of self destruction but luckily got out of it before i got pregnant with my son.
It is normal to have feelings of self doubt and depression. It was a death and you have to let yourself grieve. Just because your 15 doesnt make you have less feelings than say a 22 (myself).
You should prolly talk to your doctor about things you can do to at least help you eat. Then you should prolly get some councelling (i did and it worked). Remember, things happen for a reason. Maybe you weren't meant to be a mother now. Someday, you will make a great mom!!!
Take it easy!
2006-08-03 12:27:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, I'm very sorry for your loss...my heart goes out to you. I don't know your situation "how you lost your baby"...but I still feel for you. I had a miscarriage 3 years ago...darn near killed me emotionally. Kiddo all I can say is "one day it will NOT be the 1st thing you think about in the morning". There is NOTHING I can say to ease the pain, only assure you that one day it will not be the first thing that enters your mind...that I promise you. Take care and keep your chin up.
2006-08-03 12:29:01 · answer #3 · answered by nasta_mommy2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happened to my aunt, she lost her baby on mothers day, her name could have been Diana Rosalie. But you what she said? "My baby is in a better place now, its time to move on" Despite what she said, she was in pain. But it already happened, it hurts,dont worry, I know youll get over this terrible loss. Youre only 15, you have a long life ahead of you, it never ends there. Someday, youll have another child (maybe more), and youll be a very happy family.
2006-08-03 12:25:59 · answer #4 · answered by daydream♥believer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nayyah, I am so sorry for your loss. I had my third miscarriage in March. I completely know what you are going through. It is very hard time. You need to find someone you can trust and confide in them how you feel.
I also had to get on medication for my depression. It helped alot too.
Good Luck if you need someone to talk to email me emygayle78@yahoo.com
2006-08-03 12:40:40 · answer #5 · answered by Emily J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ues that is verry normal actually you need to get therapy it won't do much good but its a start did u put the guy that hit u in jail i hope so and yes this has happened to me if the nausea don't ease up soon go to a doctor i think your depression is making all this worse but it will eventually be alright
2006-08-03 12:50:32 · answer #6 · answered by heather f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best advice I can give you is to see a doctor and ask him/her for help. You have a right to be depressed, and that is what it sounds like. You need to talk to someone, let out your feelings. Don't wait until you can't handle it anymore, get help, and get it soon. Speak to your parents, your school councelor, your spiritual advisor, anyone who will listen.
2006-08-03 12:54:51 · answer #7 · answered by Ca-C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ohhhhhhh thats sad but like my mom says u have 2 keep up with it :) and like maybe u werent mature 2 have a baby :) maybe thats why god didnt want u 2 have a baby so early and like yeah my mom felt that way a long time ago when i was going 2 have my first brother or sister :(
2006-08-03 12:28:34 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no.but i had a miscarriage ..and i still dream of how my baby would have been....its the most natural thing in the world to feel the way you do...shows what a loving person you are...make a small locket with your baby's photo or a strand of your baby's hair in it and wear it...this way, you will feel the baby is always near you...life goes on honey....make your self emotionally and physically strong....you owe it to yourself and other children you may have later.
2006-08-03 12:33:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, how did you lose it? it's a very difficult thing to get through because a life that was once here, no longer exists. I'm so sorry for your loss. You will get through this, it just takes time. It will get easier and easier for you to get through a day, and one day you will be able to recreate another life. Good Luck to you.
2006-08-03 12:27:51 · answer #10 · answered by mamabird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋