i brroke up with my boyfriend today we couldnt make it work so i called it a day. im feeling sad and feel like contacting him but i havent! how can i move on and not feel sorry for myself i miss him but i know this break up had to be done.
2006-08-03 05:19:57 · 26 answers · asked by nikki 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its always going to be hard at first. u have gotten so accustomed to him. my girlfriend just broke up after 7 years i still love her to death and i miss her sooo much. it is extremely painful for the first couple of weeks maybe months, but if u knew it had to be done it had to be done. stick with that mindset and u will be fine. now would be a very good time to strengthen friendships and thats what u should concentrate on and urself
2006-08-03 05:28:38 · answer #1 · answered by ajaramill0711 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You made a decision and acted, did you not! Then give yourself some time, yes there will be doubts, but it's now done. Go catch up with family ,friendz, shoppin, movies, have some fun. Make no contact for a least 1 week if not 2, have good think why and if right decision was made. Then if you need to and want go have chat with boy.
2006-08-03 12:30:18 · answer #2 · answered by Ms CMP5260 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, focus on what you want. What goals do you have? Your feeling sorry for yourself. Sit down with an open notebook, and outline what you want to accomplish in the next month, year, and so on. Then get going! Focus. You will feel much better about yourself. The goal is to focus on the future because you can define your future. You CANNOT change your past, so don't dwell on it. Water under the bridge. Move on, and make it a positive change. Good luck!
2006-08-03 12:27:23 · answer #3 · answered by justgr8buys 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lets face facts...
When you look for a boyfriend, you are potentially "shopping" for a life time mate.
Pure and simple as that...
If this one didnt fit the bill, then you need to proceed to the next one and see if you can find one that is compatable with you on all levels. Dont find an exact copy of you, or you will not be able to stand him, because "like repels and opposites attract".
Dont stay around the house, get out to the mall, go fiind a job, go to the library, or other venues of doing things... Dont sit and brood, or you will start to get depressed, and you dont want to start down that road...
I wish you well..
Jesse
2006-08-03 12:27:16 · answer #4 · answered by x 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take this time to focus on yourself. Concentrate on really hitting the gym, eating well, get a mani/pedi, the works! Love yourself and realize the strength and courage it took to do what you've done and know that you're ready to take on anything!
Soon, tons of guys will flock to you. Just remember that most of them aren't good enough for you, even if they seem like it at first glance!
2006-08-03 12:26:51 · answer #5 · answered by mgrazus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with your friends, I would say do not get involved with anyone else right now. You have to deal with your feelings first, but depending on why you broke up I would suggest not contacting him since this make you feel worse. Just try to keep yourself busy with other things.
2006-08-03 12:24:30 · answer #6 · answered by Young Mommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey im kind of going through the same thing.. were like on the verge of breaking up. whatever you do dont call him.. if you feel the need to call him call a friend or talk to someone near you.. go out with your girls or just do something for yourself to feel better... go and do your hair, buy something new.. a mani and a pedi always makes me feel better
hope you feel better... good luck
p.s dont rush into another realtionship
2006-08-03 12:59:36 · answer #7 · answered by <33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the important thing to remember in those times of weakness and wanting him back was that you broke it off for a reason, and going back to him because you miss him is not fair to either of you. if it was meant to be, it will happen. give it some time for both of you to heal and then try to be firends, as stupid as some people will say it is, it iIS possible to be friends with an ex :)
good luck :)
2006-08-03 12:25:16 · answer #8 · answered by plastik_persephone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep yourself busy. Find a hobby. If you like to read join a book club, go out with your friends, spend more time with your family. Good Luck and it will get easier.
2006-08-03 12:23:58 · answer #9 · answered by taz4x4512 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing thats going to do you any good now is allow time to heal your heartbreak. In the meantime, find some distraction to occupy your time to keep you mind off your boyfriend.
2006-08-03 12:25:52 · answer #10 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋