i've sort of asked about this before...but my hubby and i started having sex about a month ago (got married a month ago) and he lasts for 1-2 minutes once he's inside of me (usually on top). i'm trying different methods (like having him orgasm once before we actually have intercourse so he lasts longer the second time) and longer foreplay, etc. but once in a while, we just go for it and he ejaculates quickly. i personally think its b/c he's having sex for the first time ever (we were both virgins before marriage).
but could he have premature ejaculation? or is it just going to take some time until he learns to control his climax?
i'd really appreciate answers! thanks!
2006-08-03 05:14:36 · 24 answers · asked by Gumnaam1 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A guy always cums fast when its their first time. and especially if he's been waiting for a long time. Guys are erect at least 5 times a day so what I would do is some foreplay until he ejaculates or the both of you for that matter its not fair that he has orgasms and you don't so get him to do you first and then once you finish he will be more than ready for his orgasm. then use a condom because that cuts down the sensations for him if he feels he is about to come prematurely then tell him to come out and do some more foreplay on you so he has time to calm down. the condom should work but if you want a baby tell him to take the condom of before ejaculation and then finish in you. the longer you wait to make him come with foreplay the quiker it will be because he has to get it out of him. He also does need time because you are the only one he has been with so once he gets used to it, you can really enjoy it once he gets his techniques down pat. Tell him what you like. Get some books and videos also until you both are experienced. Or you could even have a quickie in the morning, when you get home and then at night. he will diffently last longer because his mind has been free twice already. You get on top of him and you control the situation. Also my boyfriend tells me that he thinks about none sexual things for a while to help control him, tell him to think about a sport or something that calms him. If that doesn't work then just do IT over until you are satisfied. Good Luck ;>)
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2015-02-03 01:56:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are a few different reasons why, -if not wearing protection then it can lead to pregnancy -it's a bad ending to a great experience and can lead to problems within a relationship. -its a lack of control of that part of the body, means he will reach climax way before his partner - because like a great wine, sex should last for a long period of time and be enjoyed There's an expression for that "One Minute Man" Hope that helps ;o}
2016-03-26 21:40:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will just time take for him to learn to control it. If he was having premature ejaculation he wouldn't always wait till he was actually inside you... Give him time he is just excited cause sex is still new to him..
2006-08-03 05:18:22 · answer #6 · answered by Amy M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
premature ejaculation is when he climaxes even before he enters you or even before you do anything to him. hes just excited and never has sex before. in due time he may last longer then a minute. if he has a small dick he might only last a minute or 2 forever.
good luck and congratulations on ur wedding.
2006-08-03 05:24:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
it sounds like premature ejaculation
but if is the first times like you said, then i guess he only has to get better.
if he doesnt improve, then i guess is safe to say, that he has a problem
2006-08-03 05:21:01 · answer #8 · answered by axon3_2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's probably is just premature. tell him to take his mind off of it so much ease himself out calm down and enjoy not get to excited quickly and do that before you even get a chance to have sex good.
2006-08-03 05:20:58 · answer #9 · answered by respectfuljoy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since it is new and exciting to him and obviously you turn him on yes it will take some time for him to build up stamina and maybe find some new positions that will make him last longer and help him with sustaining control. But if your hot as fire sometimes that is impossible and you might have to just deal with it or maybe he can please you orally first so you get yours and then he can get his
2006-08-03 05:20:11 · answer #10 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋