I am in an interracial relationship with a black man, and these days u see so many black men with white girls...why do yall think the reasons are for the men all going to different races besides their own?
2006-08-03 05:06:14 · 20 answers · asked by crystal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I particulary want to hear from my black men...
2006-08-03 05:11:11 · update #1
I don't know. It depends on the man, many Black date and marry a lot of white women for love and some believe inthe stereotypes that white women are more innocent and white women are more easier to control. I'm in a Interracial relatinoship too. With this hot Colombian guy. I think think men just want to go for someone different or just find someone exotic. I went out with a lot of Latino guys for a while.
2006-08-03 05:11:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
for the person who said "cuz racism is dying out", you're an idiot. Maybe people are just feeling more free to see who they want. TV and the Media has made it feel more acceptable and therefore people feel more at ease dating someone they like regardless of their race. But, let's be real, in some cases little white girls are trying to piss their parents off.
2006-08-03 13:27:10 · answer #2 · answered by sickandtiredinpa 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Do U really think U should be asking that question. Cuz then one might ask why are U dating a black man.
Most black men will most likely say it's cuz they are tired of the black woman. But really - who cares? Date who U want. Black, white , yellow, green. Just as long as youre treating them with respect, it shouldn't matter who U date.
2006-08-03 12:11:53 · answer #3 · answered by Gremlin 2 · 3⤊ 4⤋
From my experience, "black" women are more assertive and opinionated, and will not take any crap from any man regardless of race. White girls are pushovers compared to them.
2006-08-03 12:14:40 · answer #4 · answered by Tyler Durdin 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Becasue Black moms tell thier sons to stay away from white girls and white Dads tell thier daughters to stay away from black boys and the whole time the attraction is being created by our parents disdain for those type of people. Plus I don't mind a lil warm vanilla sugar in my coffee.
2006-08-03 12:12:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 14⤊ 3⤋
Most men, myself included, want to try something new, different or exotic. There is definately something exciting about trying something new.
Ken
2006-08-03 12:12:12 · answer #6 · answered by affectionstarved 1 · 6⤊ 1⤋
for the shallow people, it's obvious. For the non-shallow people, it's cause they realize that the borders of races cannot seperate love, and that you aren't necessarily going to love within your own race.
2006-08-03 12:09:48 · answer #7 · answered by pieninja 5 · 6⤊ 1⤋
If you love some one, can get along good with them and they arent "wife beaters", then whats the point of differentiating between white and blacks in dating?
I have no problem with interracial dating, as we are all children of our LORD, JESUS CHRIST!
GOD didnt make each of us "different specie" HE only made the HUMAN RACE...so, whether your one color or another, we all bleed red..(yea, even the "blue bloods of royalty :) LOL!).
I wish you well..
Jesse
2006-08-03 12:13:44 · answer #8 · answered by x 7 · 2⤊ 4⤋
because everyone believes that the grass is greener on the other side... not that i have a preference because i don't.. i date any man who will treat me right....
2006-08-03 12:09:57 · answer #9 · answered by Queen D 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
how about asking your boyfriend?
it's all about what your attracted too. like, why do some men like large women and other men like smaller women. its just what you like. i really wish ppl would stop askin this question
2006-08-03 12:18:00 · answer #10 · answered by amanda 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋