2006-08-03 04:58:55 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It is not that simple. You need to look at why it happens and also if more than simple sex is involved. The perfect marriage is very rare and just as guys sometimes make mistakes so do women. I still believe any cheating occurs because of a breakdown between two people. Most of the time it is because in time lovers lose the sensitivity between two people. Too much is taken for granted and the indifference causes the problem. You have two choices. Get rid of her or be strong enough to get things straight and go forward. The loss of someone you really love is hard to overcome and sometimes it is not necessary. Forgiveness is a noble thing but that does not mean it can be done more than once.
2006-08-03 05:06:10 · answer #1 · answered by mr conservative 5 · 7⤊ 1⤋
Is there clear evidence that she's definitely cheating? or just a gut feeling?
If there is clear evidence, gather your courage and definitely confront her with the evidence and leave her.
If it's just a gut feeling with no clear evidence, you need to think about what give rise to this gut feeling. Are there demons in your marriage that you need to resolve first?
Good luck.
2006-08-03 12:12:16 · answer #2 · answered by acceb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leaving sounds good.
2006-08-03 12:03:27 · answer #3 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would mean she likes some one more then me, sighs!
Cheat on her, even Stevens hey!
2006-08-03 12:04:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if my husband cheats me i'll kick him out of the house n my life
2006-08-03 12:03:10 · answer #5 · answered by Rose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her to do the HIV test.
be carefull of the advice people give you because they don't know all the details..
you are the only one who knows if you must leave or forgive.
good luck
2006-08-03 14:08:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
kill thm both. as long as theres not ime to plan it it will be considered unmeditated. just make sure you catch them and kill them immediately without thinking. jk. but seriously- pretend you dont know and follow her around and get pictures. then divorce that trash!!!!111111
2006-08-03 12:04:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how u deal with heart hurt ... about me i dont know how to deal with it but to leave so i leave
2006-08-03 12:03:49 · answer #8 · answered by Clark794 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
beat the crap out of her and her lover, get a divorce sell all my belongings, re-enlist in the army, and go kill people for uncle sam
2006-08-03 12:04:08 · answer #9 · answered by NNY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were a man i'd Leave her.. if there were children involved then i'd maybe try counseling.. that's a big maybe.. depends on who she cheated w/and for how long...
2006-08-03 12:03:10 · answer #10 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋