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last night i had a dream that my cousin (who died 6 years ago at the age of 19) was alive and life was just normal as if shed been there this whole time i was the only person that seemed to think why was she here when she died? then we decided to go for a walk me my cousin and my dad whlst walking down an abondand street my dad callapsed and died in my arms then as we reached da hospital my cousin was also took away from me and died the same way my dad had. i was very close to my cousin before she died even though i was only young but i dont know why i keep having dreams about her all of a sudden when she died 6 years ago. i also woke up from my dream crying, i had been crying in my sleep because it seemed so real as though it was actually happening. any ideas????

2006-08-03 04:43:51 · 7 answers · asked by averagegirl 1 in Family & Relationships Family

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Gosh, losing your dad and cousin on the same night must be an extremely traumatic experience. Even thought it's been 6 years, the experience seems like it's still haunting you, as your dreaming is showing. Have you thought about seeking professional help to talk this whole through with someone?

2006-08-03 04:58:25 · answer #1 · answered by acceb 2 · 0 0

let me analyze the dream

dreaming of person already died means that you are thinking of that person very much and you missed him/her so much that subconsciously there is some unsolved issues or unspoken words you didn't talk to her. So, you projected it one more time in your dream.

As far as you dad goes, because she is your close friend and you projected you dad to be in the dream and you want to have the whol picture revealed one more time so that you can experience again. Since both your cousin and dad are close relatives. The projection of you dad is just a flash memory and yoru subconscience.

2006-08-03 18:26:41 · answer #2 · answered by YourDreamDoc 7 · 0 0

You probably have a sweet spirit and you being close to your cousin is why these dreams are happening. You may be very dependent on your dad right now and have a fear of him dying too. You should ask your mom and dad, maybe they have an answer.

2006-08-03 12:59:31 · answer #3 · answered by aquestion4u 1 · 0 0

According to this website, it's mostly just probably because you miss her. See the explanations below, but it leaves me wonder if maybe you're going through something stressful in your life right now that maybe makes you fear loss or just miss her or miss what she used to represent to you? Either way, dreams can sometimes be harsh and frightening, but they are just that--dreams. A way for our brains to work out things in our lives that maybe we can't workout in real life. I tend to do that, dream about things that have been bothering me. Sometimes it's wish fulfillment--having things you can't have in real life.

Deceased Relatives

At times we dream about deceased relatives or friends simply because we miss them. These dreams may be disturbing but most likely are a form of wish-fulfillment or are based on memory through which we relive old experiences. Some people believe that in dreams they meet up with the deceased on the inner planes and engage in "real" interactions with them. It is normal to miss and long for the people that we loved and that have left the physical body. Therefore, it is not surprising that they will pop up in your dreams from time to time. A personal belief system plays a large role when obtaining a satisfying interpretation for dreams in which the dead talk to the living.



Death

Dreaming about death is very common and it can be interpreted in many different ways. Death is usually a symbol of some type of closure or end. It implies an end to one thing and a beginning of another. Death dreams usually have positive symbolism. If you are the dead person in your dream, it could imply that you would like to leave all of your worries and struggles behind and begin anew. Dreaming about someone that you care about may express your fear about losing them. Dreaming that one of your parents died may express fear of loss, but it also may be an unconscious valve through which you release anger and other negative feelings. In some cultures dreaming about death and dying is a very good omen that represents longevity and prosperity.

2006-08-03 11:56:18 · answer #4 · answered by I'm just me 7 · 0 0

You still have a strong emotional tie with your cousin. There is no problem with the dream. Memories last forever.

2006-08-03 11:56:47 · answer #5 · answered by Teacher 6 · 0 0

Pay attention to your dreams.Maybe she came to you to warn you.My brother died ten years ago twice i had a similar dream,once after my father died,the second my sister in law died.I don't mean to scare you.Give your father nothing but good times.Hang in there its part of life sweetie

2006-08-03 12:05:19 · answer #6 · answered by sandy v 3 · 0 0

don't eat any snacks before bedtime!!!!

2006-08-03 11:47:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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