I truly wonder. What does a woman Really look for in a man?

Question

I mean whats most important. Is it looks, hair, manner, voice, status, ...? How does it work for a woman.? Brad Pitt apparently is the envy of women yet he is just acting yet seemingly he is first choice for many. Do they prefers actors?I have no idea.

Answer 1

You can never tell what a woman searches in a man. It all depends on her character. For example: a woman can look for love, care, affection, protection, money, happiness, beauty on the outside (forgetting what's really inside that person's heart), but not all are so...some (very rare :P) look for the inside beauty and personality of a man, the way he looks at her, the way he acts when she's around, the way he defends her from other people and the way he behaves (opening the door, pulling her chair, beating her etc) and so on. Each one is different and you have to know a person very well to get close to him/her. That's my opinion, but don't forget: You can never really understand women, that's how they are...mysterious and as the saying goes: "Can't live with them, can't live without them". I hope I answered your question :)

Answer 2

Women generally like security, and that takes many different shapes depending on the woman. Personally I'm not fussed about money, but would not respect a man as a partner if he was not intelligent. I'm a lazy person, but if he was too lazy to provide an equal amount as me then I'd not be happy. So I'm not a gold digger, but money and what comes with that is an issue.

I love broad shoulders on a man, that is important to me. I don't like too manly men. I want one that could tell me which male celeb he would do, if given the choice etc. Not a gay bloke, but not a macho thug either.

Most importantly they need to make me laugh and feel at ease. I fake this a lot, it would be nice to meet a guy that I felt genuinely at ease with.

Ha! I think that Beckeroo has just described my idea of the worst kind of man! Just shows we all like different things

Answer 3

Every answer on here from women is going to be the same BS:

"Personality, honesty, treats me good"

WHO THE HELL DOESN'T WANT THIS IN A PARTNER?

Listen, women are looking for that "bad boy" who can make them feel attraction. I don't mean "bad boy" exactly, but someone who isn't going to bow down to them and be an ***-kisser. Woman just want a man! Be a man, act like a man. Be respectfull of women, but be a bad-*** too. Get under their skin just a little and always percieve yourself as being a challenge.


I have a pretty old car that my GF hates. Everyday she reminds me of it. Last night she said "Oh, it's a peice of S***". Now, I know it's not the greatest car in the world, but don't be a b1tch to me about it. Most guys would say "Oh, I'll buy a new one soon" What did I say?

"Well, since you said that, I think I'll keep it around for a little while longer, just because you like it". I didn't say it in a dick tone, but in a half playful/ half serious manner. It lets her know that I won't bow down to her and give in to her demands. I'll buy a new car soon, but on my terms, not her's.

THIS is what women want.

Jobs, money, ***-kissing - these are the values of trophy wives.

Answer 4

(I don't really like Brad Pitt or think he's cute......but that's beside the point. The one I think is cute is Josh Turner!!! :) ) He's gotta be a true Christian, first of all, who doesn't smoke/drink/do drugs; he has to be kind, considerate, polite, well-mannered (you know, opens the door for ya, asks you what you want, that kinda thing), hard-worker (I DON'T LIKE LAZY GUYS!!!!!), deep voice (ooh,....yeah....), smart (well, at least, not really dumb or the "I-don't-care-if-I-fail" type), careful with his words, funny, & I would like it if he was tall, strong, it wouldn't hurt if he had curly hair or blue eyes, doesn't look/smell/have an attitude like he just dove into the city dump & walked right out; doesn't have his clothes on crooked or halfway down his butt. & no, I'm not really high-maintenance. I just like a good guy! & if he was a sincere Christian, then I think most of the other things would automatically fall into place!!! :)

Answer 5

I love a good looking man who is tall and muscular, I don't like short scrawny guys, dark short well cropped hair, smart and clean shaven, who smells so good, some one who looks like that would get my attention any day, and I wouldn't know if he had money or not, so money does not come into the equation here at all, if he has then that's a bonus, but not the end of the world if not. I also like a good sense of humour, some one who makes me laugh, and very romantic, Romance is on the top for me, also has to treat me right, and not be rough, I hate men who have to show they are stronger than women, we all know that men are the stronger sex (not mentally) right girls?, so guys no need to demonstrate it is there. There, I hope that has answered ur question.

Answer 6

Ok, not all women are the same first of all. What I look for in a man may not be what someone else looks for. I look for honesty, integrity, loyalty, sense of humor, and goals for the future. The rest of the things fall in there somewhere but those are my top priorities.

The thing with Bradd Pitt is that he is gorgeous and he PLAYS like he is the perfect man, however, women do not really know him or what he is like. They are in lust withhis physical appearance, but ask them same women in 10 years is he still gorgeous when he's old and wrinkly.

Answer 7

In a guy i want a great personality, sense of humour, hes gota have a soft side! he's got have something going for him, i tend to go for cute lads instead of mega hot lads, because they tend to be show offs, and for the record brad Pitt ain't all that, now Ben Affleck that's a man I'd love to s*ag mmmmmm

Answer 8

Personality first, money shouldnt be a factor but for a lot of women it is. Looks do play into it some only because I feel there has to be some attraction physicaly in order for it to work. However attraction is personal thing and everyone has different ideas on that one! Sense of humor, personal strength, and morals all rank right up there too for me.

Answer 9

Sanity. Politeness. Consideration. Attention. Conversation. Good looks don't hurt, but charm works wonders, as do kindness and genuine affection. Attractiveness and sexiness don't necessarily come in a fashion-plate package. People too often mistake the presentation (as in an actor) with the honest-to-God reality.

Answer 10

In many cases, and unfortunately, his bank account. Although there are women out there who take other things into consideration, I'm afraid the majority are concerned with the numbers first.

For those women who are not into the net income thing, I hope to meet someone like you someday, but thus far, that has not happened.