What should you do when your boy friend smacks you?

Question

I was walking around at Harbor Fest, and I must of said something wrong, because just out of no were my boy friend smacks me across the face!

Answer 1

Well I would kick him in the nuts and when he's going down to grab his sack, I would push his face into my knee, and then kick his *ss to the ground, cursing at him the whole time. Then I'd find a cop and file charges.

Answer 2

the answer to your question depends on the answer to my questions:
Do u really love him or he's just your boy friend?
Do u think HE loves U?
Are you sure he smacked u just to show that he'd not yours?
Was he in good mood when u met him?
Was he having any other problem or just he smacked u because of u?

Dear, life is full of mysteries.. u never know whats happening with the person just standing in-front of your eyes..u should first know the reason why he smacked u. Because any boy would not do this kind of thing simply to his girl friend.. There might be already something wrong in his mind that would be upsetting him.
I must say u must talk to him about this 1st before taking any kind of decision...

just remember that:
It takes lifetime to make a relation but just a second to break it.
and
We can show our anger or just smack to somebody who is Ours and not just to anybody... he know that u both r of each other so he shared his this feeling too as his love....

just chill and talk to him about it.. now go and call him...

Answer 3

Walk away - no, RUN - and don't look back. You don't deserve this disrespectful behaviour! NEVER tolerate this, or any other behaviour that doesn't repect who you are. It doesn't matter what you think you said, or didn't say - this is just plain not acceptable, under any circumstance. Lose him, and FAST! I'll bet you can do a LOT better that. By the way, a true boy"friend", would never behave like this - "friends" like this, you don't need! All the best to you.

Answer 4

No man should ever be allowed to get away with hitting a woman - no matter what the provocation. If you do not take the firmest action, you will live to regret it, or quite possibly - and I am not being dramatic - die. I have seen it all too often where abuse starts off with a 'little' slap and progresses into the use of violent weapons, causing serious injury and in several cases death. Have nothing further to do with him. Inform the police and have him charged if they consider it appropriate. Do not mention Love, as anyone who does such a thing to you, even once, is not worthy of such a word. He thinks you are an object, he thinks he can do what he likes with you and if you let him away with it, he is in his mind the winner. He will interpret it as a signal that he can do what he likes with you. Do not let him get away with it - kick his ar*se out of it - he is not worthy of you.....................

Answer 5

Tell him you're leaving him unless he has a rational explanation for why he hauled off and hit you. Maybe you said something really offensive to him and it was a knee-jerk reaction. Still, it's no excuse, but at least you'll know and you can apologize or stick to your guns AND decide whether you want to stay with him. It also could be that he was trying to hit a fly or something or just wanted to see how you'd react, even, or he has some kind of affliction like Tourette Syndrome (or something where he does things uncontrollably). Except for wanting to see your reaction, those are valid. If he was looking for a reaction, tell hm he got one... and say GOOD-BYE!!!

Answer 6

There is no reason that a guy should lay hands on you. I hope he didn't say that if was your own fault or that you deserved it. Because if he did then..get out, now! I know you probably love him. But love won't save him or make him love you or even change him. So, now if you stay, you'll live in fear. Fearing everything especially what you say and since your not sure what offended him, you'll be cautions at all that is said. If you want to live in fear, then stay. If you want to have a happy relationship that you can say ANYTHING then move on.

Answer 7

You most definitely didn't say anything to deserve being SLAPPED! No woman should put up with this type of behavior.
You need to

a) let him know that it only takes once...one hit, leads to another and another...and then who knows where YOU might end up if you stay with him?

b) Tell him, "Hit the road, JACK! (or John, or Steve...or whatever the loser's name is)"

c) Find someone else who can appreciate you for the wonderful qualities that you have!

Good luck, girlfriend!

Answer 8

Step 1: Kick him in the nuts
Step 2: Kick him again
Step 3: Go home and cut the crotch out of all of his pants
Step 4: Leave and don't look back

Answer 9

1st of all there's no such thing as saying something wrong!!! don't make up excuses for him being a jackas$... he has no business raising his hand to u or any woman for that matter.. i'd leave him and get somebody to whip that as$ (preferably my brothers) or get a bat and beat him in his kneecaps or on his fingers...

get rid of him cause if it was so easy for him to do it once he'll do it again especially since ur soft and probably will not do anything about it..

Answer 10

If he smacked you once he will do it again and maybe next time it won't be a smack but a punch in the face or worse... dump his potentially abusive @ss.