I want a simple guy. Not complicated, dramatic, or bossy. I'm not a drama queen and I don't like drama. Am I being to picky on what kinda guys I want or something?? I will only date a guy that between 23-30, I find that they are more stable and mature.
But it seems like sometimes the older ones are just as immature as the younger ones. I don't wanna sit in a parking lot somewhere waiting on his friends to get there.
Where are these kinda guys at!??
2006-08-03 04:06:11 · 19 answers · asked by angel2005_2001 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i guess maturity comes with experience and some guys no matter the age are immature, and ur right guys in that age group are more stable and have a path in life but for maturity im sure it varies, i honestly dont think ur being to picky i think u know what u want in life and what kind of man u want and thats the bottom line, however idon't think u should rule out guys because they are 20 or 21 u know, maturity comes with life experiences and u might find a 20 yr old that is more goal oriented and more mature than a 25 yr old, so i think you should just get to know them and see but u shouldn't settle for less than what u want, because u will only make yourself miserable good luck :)
2006-08-03 04:13:44 · answer #1 · answered by jm 3 · 41⤊ 5⤋
They are out there AND age really doesn't matter. Some men just mature slower than others. My husband just turned 29. We married when we were 18. He is the same person then as he is now. Very mature, loving and caring. He has never ever tried to be bossy or controlling. I met him in a chat room of all places! lol Oh and he is from Australia. Maybe you need to look abroad. (Seriously).
2006-08-03 11:14:18 · answer #2 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want a simple guy to but it's seem like they all expect more from women now. You know to walk up and hit on them they really don't put the effort into courting anymore.
And yeah they are staying immature longer, I think it has to do with so many broken homes in our day in time they are forced to grow up quicker and take on their dads responsibility so when they get away from home and are able to make decisions for themselves they just want to be a kid, not ready to have another woman down their throat. Just a theory
I think we have to take the bitter with the sweet have fun with them while we can until we're tired and move on, but the good side it may helps up stay younger longer, we're always ready to grow up and get married maybe we should take our time to.
Good luck and wish me luck to
2006-08-03 11:16:51 · answer #3 · answered by LovetoLove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple guys are in places like.. the beach, or the library, the park. They are simple because they enjoy the simple things in life and have uncomplicated lives. They are responsible and laid back at the same time. I don't think you are being too picky, but you do have to realize that a guy's friends are like his brothers. you need to give him his space just like you need yours. so if he wants to go out with his buds, go shopping with your girls or something. Now if he's going out boozing or to a strip club every night or something, that's different. Otherwise, just let it be. this is one of those simple things that makes him happy.
2006-08-03 11:12:27 · answer #4 · answered by jess_davis08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well..i'm 23..and single..it takes time to find the right guy..you are not to picky.someday he'll show up..and you will make eachother happy.maybe now he is thinks the same..is he that wrong to want a simple girl..not complicated and where thes kinda gurls at?? it's the same thing,be sure of that
2006-08-03 11:17:16 · answer #5 · answered by and1011111 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not being to picky at all.
We deserve it!
I got lucky and met one through a mutual friend.
Maybe if you have an adult job(mature),
hang out with some people from your work, and get to know there friends.
2006-08-03 11:12:50 · answer #6 · answered by Stephanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes they are, for what you are looking for you have to go above the age of 30 to find it in a guy
2006-08-03 11:11:22 · answer #7 · answered by fasb123r 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm right here baby girl. too bad i'm taken. but there should guys like me around your area. keep looking. don't settle for "this will do". your preferrence is not out of the norm. actually it's good to hear that your pick doesnot include "he has to be hot". (i'm tried of hearing that). it just shows that you're a mature woman. good luck finding us.
2006-08-03 11:20:11 · answer #8 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Were usually workin our a s s e s off but sometimes we go out to the bar or at the grocery store
2006-08-03 11:14:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you keep such a close minded persona about mr. perfect then you'll never notice if he is there. Relax your standards and the "perfect" person may be right under your nose.
2006-08-03 11:11:36 · answer #10 · answered by pretty_in_punk_217 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never leave MY GIRL sitting in a parking lot.....she can offer me things my friend can't!!!!
2006-08-03 11:14:24 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋